And cannot get out and I struggle. We are caught in the middle of Too much for help and too little to pay. I Stay at home with the 2 kids and one on the way. cant afford daycare and no subsidity so I can get a job. Anyone else there right now? I already had a breakdown and I cant do this anymore.
2007-04-06 10:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by Angelus 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Eliminate any unnecessary expenses, if you haven't already. Even things like cable TV, cell phones, and eating out. If you can do without a car, or go from two cars to one, that will save a lot of money. None of these material things is more important than your mental health.
If you have a husband/boyfriend at home, maybe you could work split schedules so that somebody stays home with the kids while the other works.
Above all, don't go it alone. Get support and help from friends and family. Even just talking it over with someone can help you keep up your courage.
Good luck, you can do it.
2007-04-06 10:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by rainfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A,
We work from home ,
I quit my JOB due to a problem with a corrupt system
put thousands on the card .
I Found a way out,
you can contact us
if you don't I understand,
but it's your kids life too, you need to do what you would'nt normaly do to get what you would'nt normaly get
in the words of the wisest man I know, jim Rohn
If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.
2007-04-06 17:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by egc859 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have not experienced this but can imagine the stress. You may want to try to find work that you can do at home. Or drasticaly decrease costs (by moving for example.)There may also be organisations that help people in debt and finanicial problems. You are in a unfair situation that understandably has led to a breakdown. You have to realise that this is becuase of the situation your in and not because of you.
2007-04-06 17:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow can I understand what you are going through. Have you contacted any local churches, or other non-profit organizations in your area? Maybe you could do some day care on a short term basis to help out. I know this doesn't give adult companionship but financially it could help
2007-04-06 17:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Carole D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try making money at home by using a online survey thing or sell things on ebay that will help.
2007-04-06 17:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by futuregeek1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋