Am I the only woman who feels that way??? And men accuse women of being nags...
Smart-a$$ comments about not "giving any" will be disregarded.
2007-04-06 07:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by gobraghomagh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how often you are having sex and how often the nagging is occurring.
If you have sex about once a week (which is what I would consider normal / average) and he's nagging you for it everyday - then yes - that's annoying.
If you have sex once a month (which is average for a lot of people - just not me) and he's nagging you for it - well - maybe you should throw him a bone and have sex TWO times a month.
If you haven't had sex in a month or longer, you deserve to get nagged.
There is a reasonable expectation in any relationship that each partner's sexual desires can be fulfilled. So, if you keep putting your partner off because you're "not in the mood" so be it. Just don't be surprised when he goes and finds someone he doesn't have to nag so much to get it.
By the fact that you immediatley pre-anticipate people assuming that you're note "giving any" (as you put it), I'm going to assume that is probably the case.
You're right, of course. You are under no obligation to provide sex and I'm sure it annoys you to be repeatedly asked.
Just like he's under no obligation not to cheat on you.
2007-04-06 07:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by mantoothnation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you. My ex & I had alot of problems because he thought we should be having sex more often then I wanted to. And because I didn't want it as much as him, he thought I was cheating! I admit, I have things I nag about But they make sense! Just because our sex drives aren't the same as a 19 yr old boy, doesn't mean there's something wrong with us or we're getting it some where else! Plus, men don't even take into consideration that maybe they should set the mood by doing something sweet for us. Or buying us something that makes us feel sexy. There is ways to get sex from a woman alot more often with out nagging that will make both ppl happy!
2007-04-06 14:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally when a guy nags me its a red flag that its time to get rid of him. If he has to nag for sex then thats the only reason hes there and needs to be told to go fly a kite.
2007-04-06 14:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I am not alone. I love the fact that they count how many days it has been since they got some, but you know its been way longer for you, since you have been practicing self gratification since day one. Your best friend is Mr C battery. But Yes it makes you feel uninterested in sex altogether its very strange. If I initiate it he doesn't want it. So if I dont want to be bothered with Sex, then I act like a sex kitten and start initiating. Usually its a big "Im tired". Sometimes it backfires but most time it works out in my favor... ;)
2007-04-06 14:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by deltaburke98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends... My husband rarely has to ask, as I am usually willing and ready. But in the past when I was on certain birth control medicines... I lacked desire to want to do anything and my at the time boyfriend would nag me for it. I dont get bothered by it, but I was just not interested in doing anything. If you feel all that bothered by him wanting what he wants... Just think about how bothered you feel when you want something and cant have it!
2007-04-06 14:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT alone in this!!! I get so irritated when I get bothered constantly to have sex with my husband. It isn't like he doesn't get it! He just thinks he needs it all the time. Sorry, but by the end of the day, I'm too tired to "put out" all the time! Why do men think they need it all the time, even if they have been total jerks or do nothing to romance women?! *Shaking head* I doubt I'll ever understand! lol.
2007-04-06 14:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Malarie~*~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG! It so does! I get soooooo irritated! I mean I don't want to and they're nasty pervs most of the time! You should totally get them for nagging. They'll probably lay off if you tell them they're acting like a woman! Guys hate that.
2007-04-06 14:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by barbiegrrrrl194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I am too tired or too stressed and he nags and bothers me.. It is annoying. If I said no, go to the computer. LOL.
2007-04-06 14:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get hit on by guys all the time. My girlfriend has to explain it to me.
She tells me to consider it a compliment and let it go.
My advice to you is...be thankful someone wants to have sex with you.
Put things in perspective. Would you rather guys NOT bother you?
2007-04-06 14:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such a moot point because it shows the selfishness of the guy. I mean honestly how good is sex going to be if you aren't even into it?
So stupid...
2007-04-06 14:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by L'Ambitieux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋