I am almost 16, and i really want to have sex. it is so hard resisting pressure. what should i do?
2007-04-06 07:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by hello_starshine 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
This answer is going to suck. (In your opinion) But it's the truth. Albeit a little harsh.
You should ask yourself these questions:
Although I'm aware its very unlikely I'll end up with the first boy I give myself to, why would I still want to give away one of the most precious things about me?
Am I ready to have a baby, when it's cute.. oh, and crying, and needing, and 24-7, and my life will change dramatically?
Am I ready to give my body up to the possibility of HIV, STDs, etc?
What reasons do I have to WAIT?
And as for the last question, I hope you find many.
best of luck ;)
2007-04-06 07:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Burn to Shine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it is not all that it is cracked up to be!! First off, it will be painful the first few times. Then you will be constantly worrying that you are pregnant or got some nasty disease. There are other ways to have "sex" without penetration. You can try oral or just using your hands. If your boyfriend is pressuring you, tell him he will just have to wait or he can move on to someone else. If he chooses to go on, then you know he was not worth giving your virginity to. If you decide to have sex, talk to a parent, go to the health dept and get on the pill. USE CONDOMS! Best of luck to you!
2007-04-06 14:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is think bout what will happen if you have sex. I started havin sex at 16, it made me feel more horrible than i felt b4..I got a std (thank goodness it was curable) and i got pregnant b4 i got married. Now im a single mom. Do you want that? Ur only 16! Think of those things..Guys tend to use you if they think ur easy just a fyi
2007-04-06 14:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Exquisite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait on having sex. save your innocence as long as you can. save it for marriage. for the one you love. cuz if you have sex now you will regret for the rest of your life. i know been there done that. at the time i lost my virginty when i was 13. the guy was 25. come to find out he was screwin around on me.with girls i went to school with. now he is living in california with his mom. now i wish i wouldnt have done it. the only 2 reasons why i did it was cuz my mom told me not to and because every one else in my school was having it to.if i could go back and save my innocence i would in a heart beat. so save it until you get married. i know it is hard to resist peer pressure but you will thank yourself later on in life.
2007-04-06 16:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have sex? Is it merely for the physical pleasure? Or are you wanting a boyfriend, or wanted to feel grown up, or are you just curious? Ask yourself WHY.
2007-04-06 14:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋