I've been going out with this guy for about 8 months now. He's great, though a little quirky sometimes. He's pretty introverted but it's never been a big problem. We broke up once months ago but got back together after we realized it was silly and we've been doing amazingly since then. We were having a great time together Wednesday and then he left to go to work. When I saw him Thursday morning he looked upset and then was like "This relationship is over!" and refused to give me any reason besides "I'm just really angry."
I don't understand. We weren't fighting. I didn't do anything behind his back that he could have found out about. I'm going insane wondering what's going on. What would make a person pull something like this completely out of the blue?
2007-04-06 06:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by Rhelitha D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you are wrong, he did have a reason. You just don't know what it is, sorry to say but that is just the way it happens sometimes. Just move on to someone better.
2007-04-06 07:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
As a guy, when he wants to break up with his girlfriend, there will not be just one reason, there might have been more reason, below are some reasons that i can think of from what i understand from you in your question.
1) He is bore of you.
2) He found another girl that he feels that she is the one for him
3) After the first break up as mention , he no longer have that strong feeling towards the relationship.
4) He feels that you are not the one for him
The above are some of the reason i can think of to make you feel better, since you have already broken up with him. Look ahead for someone better.
2007-04-06 14:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Showstopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have heard something that wasn't true about you doing something behind his back. He might have believed them. It could have been a person that was jealous of what ya'll have. Try talking to him about it. Don't be too upset about it until you try talking to him and find out what is going on.
2007-04-06 14:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by jln_1992_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he's found another girl , and may be he felt depressed . you should try to remember , may be you hurt his feelings while you aren't notice , the last thing you should think about is that somebody told him a bad thing about you and he didn't want to make sure about , and he's gone just like that . but if you are sure that there isn't any thing happened , forget about him and he is the looser not you , he doesn't deserve you . make sure of this
2007-04-06 15:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i`ve learned from similar experience:
1. If you broke up once,you`ll broke up again sooner or later
2. Maybe he has an issue with you but didn`t say so
3. maybe it`s another woman you didn`t know about
2007-04-06 14:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by NuclearKitty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who knows what he's mad about, but that sounds nuts. also, totally insane that you dated for 8 months and he won't give you a straight answer. you definitely deserve one, and you should get it out of him. then get out of there - you don't want someone who will treat you like that.
2007-04-06 14:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by SarahS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FACT: To you it's no reason...
To him it is...
If someone breaks up with you it's because there is always a reason...you may not know what it is...but....there is always a reason!
2007-04-06 14:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call his psyhiatrist to find out.
2007-04-06 14:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fuku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was mad at the world
2007-04-06 14:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by mariaFB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋