Have u ever played childish mind games that made a woman just say "I've had enough" and wouldn't return your phone calls or emails? Please don't say that guys don't play games. I'll admit not all do but I'm referring to the ones that do. When I say games I mean that stupid hard to get chase thing that a guy does. I also want to know how did u feel in the end?
2007-04-06 06:53:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you hoping that the answer will be that people who play mind games feel horrible?
Sorry - that's not the case. Most of the time people who play mind games play mind games because it gives them a thrill, makes them feel in charge - at some level they're getting enjoyment out of it.
And women play as many mind games as men do if not more.....
2007-04-06 06:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by mantoothnation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, no mind games here. Men are more likely to be naive about what a girl is thinking or feeling. You may think he is playing hard to get when in reality he is simply clueless that you are even interested. I have been married for 33 years and I still can't tell what she is thinking and feeling sometimes. I have gotten used to many of her unspoken clues but I still need her to come right out and say it sometimes.
2007-04-06 07:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by rac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to objectify in some of the males' opinons about playing hard to get is a women's thing. Thats not true for all women. Maybe it seems like in most cases it is, but certainly not for me or my galfriends.
I have never done that in my life, but when my guyfriends play childish games with me, yeah, I do ingore them until they're finally ready to treat me like a friend. They tell me they feel bad about it and they're sorry for making me upset that way. After that we carry on our friendship and more stronger when I can trust them again. I suppose in some ways this is similar relationship wise but I can't tell you how it is. I just know that most of guyfriends don't even play hard to get because if they like a girl, they're usually timid about how to approach her or sometimes don't have a clue how to act around her and try to not look silly.
2007-04-06 07:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by whiteaspiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy yes I used to do that in High school but when I was out world that when I learn so much and I don't like to do any childish mind games smiling. so I become a better person and my marriage and 3 kdis marry to wonderful wife 10 years it sure worth it. that I change smiling.
2007-04-06 06:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys play more games then women. I am seeing someone who periodically doesn't call when he normally does just to see if I'll call him to see if he is alright.If I don't call, it means to him that I don't care. I hate games like that.Hell, when I want to talk to someone,I pick up the damn phone I don't wait around to see if they"care" enough to call!I'm not a game player and I really detest trying to be with someone that plays around like that.
2007-04-06 07:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok because u said guys only i had to look. sorry... but from a girls perception- games are fun! especially when were playing them on you too. if you really care for a girl tho, you have to know when the games are supposed to stop and the romacing part needs to begin... and believe me, you'll know. just thought id tell u that!
2007-04-06 06:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by wp_ashro7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be foolish! Wear a coat then open it when he opens the door, not before in case it is some sweet old man/lady just leaving after visiting who opens the door. Giving them a heart attack would be a super mood killer. Wearing a coat keeps you covered when you need to be, outside, who wants twenty rapists following you in and killing the BF.
2016-05-18 21:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by marietta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i have, but only with women that i dont care wether they stick around or not...the ones i want to keep i play it cool, but not crazy...
and how would i feel if i lost one of the ones i purposely drove insane, well not bad really...so long as at some point i got to sample the goods, they were probably on their way out anyways...
2007-04-06 06:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't usually play hard to get! That's a girl thing. If he's playing hard to get, he doesn't want to be gotten! Simple.
2007-04-06 06:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, but guys don't usually play "hard to get". That's a woman thing.
He must not of wanted you and was trying to be nice and not tell you to your face.
2007-04-06 06:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋