I see so many people here with problems & asking 4 help with their kids. I thought it would be nice to hear about some of the things people enjoy about being parents. For me, I love the chance to feel and act young. I can still do all the silly kid things that I used to enjoy when I was small. And it gives me excellent opportunity to bond with my daughter, which is completely priceless. We watch cartoons together, color, play dolls, go to the park, etc. I really love the time we spend together. What are some things you enjoy about being a parent?
2007-04-06 06:35:44 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I've read all your responses...and I must say...many of you brought tears to my eyes.....I wish I could give all you devoted parents 100 points each for your answers......I thought a question like this would remind us all how special our children are...and I guess I was right. Thank you all for taking the time to answer and share a piece of your lives as parents.
2007-04-08 06:43:30 · update #1
For my 3 year old: I love watching her when she doesn't know I'm looking; she's a crack-up and so creative!
I enjoy her made-up jokes that make no sense, but crack us up all the same.
I love watching her daddy become mush when she gives him kisses and hugs.
I love those naughty moments when we indulge in Cheetos or ice cream cones and giggle over our messy hands.
I love it when she quietly crawls into bed with me in the middle of the night and snuggles up, with one hand stroking my hair and her cheek resting against my shoulder. Sweet dreams are made of this.
I love being a mommy when I arrive to pick her up from preschool after a difficult day, and the moment she sees me she runs to me, telling me how much she loves me.
Last weekend, I loved watching her experience Disneyland for the first time, giving me the opportunity to see it through the eyes of a three year old. What a thrilling experience!
I love reading Dr. Seuss to her over and over and over, and hearing her giggle in all the right places every time.
I love her little hands patting me on the cheeks while she says, "Pitty Mommy."
I like the fact I can pre-board on planes with her. ;-)
I enjoy watching her discover the amazing things I've grown use to, especially when it comes to the wild world in our back yard.
I love the fact I can play with Barbies again, have tea parties, watch Sesame Street, and paint with my fingers. Life with my precious girl is a blast!
For my seventeen year old daughter: I love the fact that we actually like each other again. (To those with teenage kids, take heart: It does get better!) I think with time (when she becomes an adult out on her own) we could actually grow to be best friends.
I love the fact she trusts me enough to confide in me, seeking my approval and advice. I feel honored that she lets me in.
I enjoy the constant crazy hustle of having all of her friends over, watching them enjoy their youth to its fullest.
I love having her hug me tight, and suddenly my teenager is my baby girl all over again.
I love hearing her say, "I'm lucky to have you for a mom." What she doesn't realize is that I'm the lucky one for having been blessed with her.
I love snuggling up on the couch late at night watching chick-flicks and B movies while gorging on Ben and Jerry's.
I enjoy all of the inside jokes we've collected over the years. Each one tells a different story.
For both my girls, I love the fact they've brought me more joy than I could have ever imagined. Who would have known that my life could have been so rocked by these two magnificent girls?
I really love the fact that I get to be a part of their lives for the rest of my life. I have so much to look forward to!
2007-04-06 20:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Janice J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I enjoy being a parent. I wasn't someone who has always felt that I wanted children, either. In fact, my first child was a "surprise" and I was very upset. Now I have found every single day I learn something new from them - how to enjoy simple moments - how the simplest little things can be so funny or enjoyable. I have not only grown as a person, but my marriage has become stronger & even our sex life has become more fulfilling. I am not saying there aren't stressful times - but I certainly didn't feel like I lost myself to my children. My husband and I set bedtimes for our children, so that every night we have at least a few hours alone together. We make a point of going out every so often alone together. Our lives changed drastically - no going out at the last minute, etc., but we found many other ways to enjoy our time at home. We watch movies together & make special snacks when we do that; we play board games, invite friends over, go to the park with the kids. It is just different now. I sometimes have doubts about how effectively I parent, but I have never once, since holding my child in my arms, regretted becoming a parent. We have very good communication and my husband helps out more than a lot of husbands. If I am exceptionally tired or have a big day the next day, he will make a point of getting up with the baby so I can rest, and vice versa. (we both work outside the home). When you share responsibilities that way, resentment doesn't build up and I have much more energy for "extracurricular" activities. I know this is often an issue for new mothers. They are exhausted, don't get the help they need, and their husband's are wanting some attention. So, we are just clear with each other about what we need and work together. Anyway, I have rambled on a bit, but I hope this helps!
2016-05-18 21:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a mommy is the best thing in the world to me. My daughter will turn 11 the 10th and my son will be 10 the 11th of July. I also have two step children ages 7 and 10. I love everything about it . The hugs and kisses, the questions of inocence and just being there for them. How when they feel everything is wrong they know I am here and I will always love them and try to make things right. Watching cartoons and movies and listening to music and we all sing. Going shopping. Then there are days when I have a hard time and my daughter comes to me and tells me she loves me and she's always gonna be there for me. I have 4 totally great kids. theres just nothing better and I am so proud!!!
2007-04-06 08:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love watching my kids as the discover the world for the first time. It's so incredible and they remind me of all the simple things that are taken for granite. In a way they help me discover the world through a childs eyes all over again. I love reading to them, teaching my 2year old all her letters, colors, animal sounds, numbers, etc... I love seeing her face light up when she finally understands and remembers what she's learned. I love hearing her in the other room with her younger brother as she sings to him and resights her favorite books to him. Being a parent is so hard, but so worth while. What a good question. It's been a tough day chasing these lilones around...it was nice to sit here during my 5 minutes of alone time and remember& reflect on how great being a mommy is. Thanks.
2007-04-06 11:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love everything about being a parent! Even folding their little clothing makes me happy! When we do art projects together or lay in a big pile to read Dr. Seuss my heart swells. Watching Finding Nemo for the 300th time is still fun because I love to watch their little faces as they watch it. All the sappy stuff like how great clean babies smell, how they look like angels when they're sleeping, and how their laughter sounds better than anything on Earth. All that stuff is so true, and it's the greatest thing I have ever done in my life. My husband is totally devoted to me and the kids, too. He's there changing diapers, kissing boo boos, giving baths and wiping noses. He makes my being a parent even better because he's such a great dad and super husband. Great. Now I'm gonna cry.
2007-04-06 17:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My favorite thing about being a parent is simply that....the blessing of being a parent. Sure at times it can be stressful and rigorous, but the pay off is far more than the investment. I absolutely am most thankful for my boys' sense of humor, they make me laugh all the time. I also enjoy the "routine" of our day, supper together as a family, family night, games, and of course bedtime story and prayers. I really feel the most loved when my sons' pray and say they are thankful for their Dad and I, and to protect us, etc. it's just that wonderful unconditional love that makes it all worth while. I love being a Mom and wouldn't change a thing!
2007-04-07 02:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My favorite thing is the things they teach you. I felt so scared going into parenthood. But over the 19 months I have had my son he has taught me how strong of a person I am and that if I really want to do something I can. Just watching him grow and learn new things, taught me that I need to grow and learn new changes and at change is okay. I know he has so much more to teach me as I do him. My new son who is almost two months has already taught me so much too. Like I can love more than one child, how to balance things without leaving anyone out. But the thing they have taught me that I cherish the most is unconditional love. I can be having a really bad day and my son can be being so naughty, and he can give me a kiss and hug and my day is turned upside down. A kiss can solve any problem, I have been taught this too.
2007-04-06 06:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My life has been beautiful and full since i became a parent, my daughter makes me want to be a better person, someone she can look up to and be proud of. I have improved as a person in many ways. Every minute I spend with my daughter makes me believe in God. He is there in every smile in every tear. She has brought out the fun person in me and has taught me the pleasure of giving without expecting in return. The most beautiful part of being a parent in learning from her. I never realized someone so small could teach so much!
2007-04-07 05:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing I love the most about being a parent and step-parent is knowing I have the ability to help raise these children to what they are going to be as adults. I look at each of my children and I know that because they had a mother/step-mother who showed them unconditional love and individual attention they will grow up to be exceptional people and parents.
2007-04-06 14:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by jahvar's mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I have 4 kids and I love how different they all are but we have this really cool connection. They all have something in common with each other and each one has found a common bond with another yet they are all different. They each make me laugh for a different reason and they each pull my heartstrings for different reasons. I love the diversity of each of them. I love to see how they look as they grow, how they take on different characteristics of other family members. BUT I am a parent who pays attention so I would notice those things.
2007-04-07 05:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by kelly-il 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question.
I love to watch her develop. To see her realize her instincts and act on them. To nail a punch line on a joke. To fall in love with a bug and want to be its mother. To see somebody who is hurt or sad (including me) and rush to assist. To hear her crazy stories, and think of how they've progressed over the years.
I also love being able to un-develop. What I mean is, lay on the floor coloring w/ crayons. Making a fort with sheets & chairs in the living room. Dancing in the rain (that is so damn much fun!!). Reading childrens books I had forgotten about. Getting excited about cartoon movies and pink shoes and butterfly hairclips.
Basically all of those little moments you miss when you blink. That's what I love the most. :)
2007-04-06 10:58:52 · answer #11 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋