what should i do now if like a week ago this girl i like verry much?

Question

was verry interesed in me but after a couple of phone messages i sent to her saying that i like her ,i love her ,now she is not showing any interest in me.after the first messages she was happy and the day after i sent again messages saying sorry for the messages before and she said,,u cannot say sorry,,.the next day i got drunk and again i sent her many mesasges ,asking her if she likes me and telling her i like her .now she dont even answer my messages or phone calls even do i used a more straight language ,i dont ask her if she likes me or the other staff.i mentioned that both we are in a relationship at the moment but she told me she is bored of hers.how should i pursue now?i realy like the girl and i dont want her to lose interest in me.(we are also working colleagues).

Answer 1

Okay, where to begin.

First, before you pursue this girl you really should end your existing relationship.

Second, you told her you loved her, then apologized for it, making it seem like you didn't mean it. If you're going to apologize for the messages, make sure you are clear that you are apologizing for the number of messages, not the content.

Third, are you really sure you should be pursuing a relationship at work? If that part won't be a problem, okay, good luck.

Fourth, you know she's in a relationship. Do you really want to get involved with her while she's already taken? Would you trust her if she cheated with you? I think you should wait until she's single before you push this any further. That way if you're both single, there's no extra baggage or drama to deal with.

Answer 2

You need to communicate with her when you are not drinking... if you get drunk leave your phone at home so you wont sound like the biggest looser...

Get a little serious and stop asking people if they like you... cause if they stick around is because they do and if you ask too much they will get tired of the question and tired of you...

Invite her to dinner... and listen to her, you seem to be the type of guy that talks way too much and does not listen... be quiet for a bit... and listen to what she has to say and what she wants out of this relationship... or what she wants to do next week... or weekend... ask questions that are not so complicated like - want to go to the movies Friday?... (NOT - do you like me a little or a lot?) DELETE THOSE QUESTIONS OFF YOUR HEAD...

Good Luck