My boyfriend and I broke up on sunday, but while we were dating, his ex-girlfriend emailed him and said that she really did love him, and knows they are supposed to be together. But she only wrote that after she saw us together. Do think she was just jealous? Because she broke his heart, she dumped him. Now I think he might go back to her even though he bad talked her all the time. do you think he will go back to her? Is it just jealous love she is having?
2007-04-06 06:18:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm... I'd say both jealousy and regrets.
Sometimes, you know, it's only through losing someone when we finally know what we've lost. And other times, we can look at relationships like possessions - the minute we lose it, we want it again just to have it, and also because we don't want to see that person happy with anyone else.
I personally don't like dating someone who speaks bad about their exes because it makes me wonder what he'll say when we break up, you know? And it seems like even those who speak the worst about their exes at some point go back to them. Who knew, huh?
Unfortunately, it probably wouldn't be so surprising if your boyfriend went back to her, especially if she broke up with him and afterwards emailed him.
2007-04-06 06:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by ms xazzia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, I think he may go back to her :-( Boys are really stupid like that. They don't know what love is they just think that they need a different girl each month! (some each week!) Andabout the girl, she might have been jealous or, might have seen you and him together and regretted ever dumping him! So maybe the email was true, the only person in the world who knows that answer is her. If this is REALLY bothering you try talking to both of them (Definitly not together, and definatliy in person.) That's all i have to say for today.
TahTah For Now!
2007-04-06 06:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealous Love, is there any other kind? I detect annoyed " I told you so", in your prose. Of course she e-mailed after she saw you two together. She thought you were getting her loving, and learning everything in the world about her. Lucky she's not Tanya Harding. E-mail her back and tell her that "her secret" is safe with you.Eventually she'll drop airhead, and then you two can talk, and don't be telling her that's she is known as the St Louis Gobbler. Be Nice. And yes, he's in love with her, and she's not with him. She's just checking around to get the best deal on B/F. Tell your ex b/f that she'd be a lot prettier cept for the fat. He has no sense, so tell him to tell her that it's the clothes and she doesn't need to work out. Watch out.
2007-04-06 06:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't compete with an ex...But you talk about the email SHE wrote. Not what his next move was. I would CAlmly talk to him since you are aware of the email and see what he wan't to do unstead of guessing. IF his heart was broken like as if it was you we are talking about instead, sure he would bad mouth her mainly to try to make himself feel better...He obviously had feelings for her and I believe feelings never completely go away-they just settle in a different place and perspective in a person....If he feels the need to communicate or see her, you need to find out why but chances are regardless she is stronger in his heart and you should probably go on...
2007-04-06 06:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by city girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he might go back to her, but the real question should be about you. What would it matter if he went back to her or not? You two broke up. What that means is that he can do what he wants and so can you. You may not like the choices he makes, but he may not agree with what you do either. Move on. Don't let it bother you.
2007-04-06 06:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was probably jealous. It's often said that the best revenge if someone leaves you is to be happy. Most people, but especially women, like to see their ex pine for them for a while. It makes them feel better about themselves.
Depending on the nature of your ex's relationship with this other girl, she may be able to get him back, but I doubt it will last.
2007-04-06 06:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if it's jealous or what, but she should of not have said that to your man when you to were dating. But then he isn't that great of a guy if he dumps you or makes you dump him cause he wants to be back with her. Get off this rollar coaster ride and look for someone you really deserve. You can do better. Just forget about the both of them. ;)
2007-04-06 06:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you all broke up and how it happened. Did you confront him about her email to him? Did he break up with you a day or two after reading her email and possibly talking to her in person or on the phone? How do you really feel for him? If you love him and your the one who broke up with him then ask yourself why, and Possibly why don't you trust him enough for him to talk to his ex. Also ask yourself if maybe your really the one who wanted out of the relationship. Lack of trust in a relationship ( ie.. Jealousy) usually means the person who has lack of trust for the other IS or Has done something Bad themselves. Its a way of telling on yourself. If you haven't been honest with him about something then your not going to trust him to be honest with you.
It is possible for a guy to talk to his ex with out it meaning anything. Remember he was with you when she emailed him. Do you know if he emailed her first? you need to fill in all the blanks. They can just be friends. I realize that you may just need closure but if he has done something in the past to cause you not to trust him now then sweetheart you brought it on yourself for staying with some one you know you couldn't trust.
You just have to be willing to let it go if you really want to get over this.
Also if its not to late to repair the damage thats been done, if you even want to repair it in the first place.
Maybe you could try talking to him calmly and explain where your coming from and tell him why you questioned any of this. Again that is IF you want to repaid the damage. If not then whats the point in asking your question?
2007-04-06 06:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just jealous if they do get back together remember the did not last for a reason and it will happen again. He sounds kind of pathetic to just run back to her like that and when she does dump him again you better not take him back because you can do so much better
2007-04-06 06:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋