Is it wrong of me to have this huge attraction to older men? (ages 20-38)?

Question

I'm only 17. Yikes..
Do older men like teenage girls? Just wondering what your opinions are

Answer 1

Not wrong at all...
I was 27 when I started dating my 17 yr. old g/f..
I was 28 and she 18 when we married...
We were married 15 yrs. and had two great sons...
She was killed in a car wreck a few yrs. ago...
I am now 47 and enjoying single life..
You just make sure the guys you are dating are not
married and don't have a bad history / background..
Make sure you get a good Pre-Nup before marriage..
Remember, it is as easy to love a rich man as it is a poor one

Answer 2

I can't speak for all guys, but I personally do. If your 17 then 20 isn't too bad. There is no logical reason as to what attracts people to other people.

Not too sound like a pig, but typically if an older guy (say 30-38) were attracted to you it would only be for one thing. I imagine you know what that is.

If your cool with that, then that's cool, just don't expect a meaningful relationship. I'm 32 and would have no problem having a friends w/benefits relationship with a girl your age.

I hope that answers your question.

Answer 3

Girl I have a funny story for you. lol This is so weird. Okay I was a senior in high school, 17 years old. I mostly dated guys my own age. The oldest guy I ever dated was 21. I was working at a Arby's and I had this new boss that just started. Long story short, we fell in love. We first just talked socially at work, then a little outside of work, and before I knew it BAM I was head over heels. Well he was 32 years old. There is 15 years age difference between us. I never would have pictured myself with someone that much older. But if you are a mature girl, and want certain things out of life, and you find a guy that fits you perfectly, then age is of no importance. Of corse everyone I knew thought it was ridiculous and we'd have nothing in common and I'd just get my heart broke. they couldn't have been more wrong. We had been dating for two year when he propsed to me. We've been happily married for a year now, and I cannot even imagine my life without him. You know whats best for you and should follow your own heart. There's nothing weird about it and I'm living proof that if can work out wonderfully. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 4

Of course older men like young ladies. The thing to remember is he's going to be more mature than a guy your own age which means you will have to act your age or older to match him. He may take the father role out on you. I'm dating a 33 year old man and I'm 24. There's a lot he's already experienced that I have not yet experienced. It's not wrong to have an attraction to older men. I just wouldn't get involved with one until my 18th birthday if I were you. If you do get involved most of the good ones will take care of you because their more established like my boyfriend!

Answer 5

We are in the same boat....nothing wrong its that sense of security you feel with a real man versus a child. Like your father,,
Men at 18 are still growing finding themselves as we woman are but on a much different scale at the same age.
Just to articulate what we want seems bothersome and or complex.
Trial and error see what you really like.

HOWEVER Just wait as an older Gent would expect you to wait a real gent will never take advantage either You are underage & your body is developed as a woman wait princess do not rush into a life of regrets preserve yourself make sure your ready emotionally and physically...Good luck

Answer 6

i think around 20-25 or so isnt too bad. I am kinda in the same situation. however 38 is WAYYY WAYY WAYY over the line. you are not even an adult yet and he is damn near his death bed compared to the life ahead of you. I guess you really cant help how you feel, but if you honestly wanna roll with a 30 some year old let it takkess lots and lots of time before it gets physical, cause chances are he is there for the young to get physical. BE careful.

Answer 7

You have to decide why you're attracted to older men. Are you looking for a guy with money? Or is it just some fetish?

Unfortunately there are many older man that like teenage girls. But it's just about sex with them. You aren't going to form a real relationship at your age with someone that is 30+. He's just a horny old man looking for fun.

You have to decide for yourself what it really is you find attractive about these guys. I wish you well, and hope you clear your head before you make a big mistake.

Answer 8

No, its not wrong. Its natural. It might say soething about your own relationship with your father....but thats a bit freudian...

I wanted to write you because of a response you left to a question of mine. I saw your avatar and name, and wondered if you were from my area. However, I cant seem to contact you, as you dont have allow email...

Im one of those older guys you speak of... Do we like teenage girls? Well, thats hard to state. I can tell you that we love the physical appearance of teenagers - and that is completely natural too. We are animals, and we have instincts. One instinct is sexual procreation. We tend to be sexually attracted to women that appear young and healthy. Why? Well, a long time ago, only young wwomen survived childbirth. So, we didnt go for the older ones...
As for me personally, I typically enjoy looking at teenage girls, but it ends around there - usually, they arent...mature (?) enough.

You, on the other hand... Youve made me curious because you at least seem to be rather intelligent for a woman your age.... :)

Would love to hear from you... Are you in the 925 area code? me too!!

Answer 9

Yes until you get out and experience what life has to offer ... but mentally wise I would not think you are ready .... The older men have already experience things you have yet to ... Don't deprive yoitself .... Males matures slower then females so give urself a few more years before getting serious with one and if you still feel the same then do your thang gurl ....

Answer 10

Yeesh! that's some range!! I like women 20-38 too. Well, maybe I'd go as high as 50. Ok, 55, but that's the max. Ok, maybe there are some hotties at 60. But that's where I draw the line! On women from age 20-60, yes. Thank you.