ok, so i found out that my current boyfriend went to bed with the woman before and it just makes me kind of wary. it makes me feel like, you know, that weird feeling of not being his one and only true love. we haven't spoke to each other ever since i found out. i mean, i can't even make eye contact with him!!!! what should i do?!?!?
2007-04-06 05:30:21 · 14 answers · asked by Kiera Bruce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, he didnt go to bede with a woman, i mean, like a really pretty girl. i saw her in a photo album before. i heard my bf whispering, she was so hot and sexy. ARGG!!! it just makes me so mad!!!
2007-04-06 05:32:07 · update #1
Firstly if he when to bed with her before he met doesn't mean you aren't the one for him. It just means he did something that maybe he even regrets to today.
As for him saying that she was so hot. That's just mean, he should have burned that bridge a while back. Talk to him and tell him how much it's bothering and affecting you, because if you love him as much as you do he'd be open to it and talk away the wounds. Good luck. :)
2007-04-06 05:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweet silence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little unclear on what happened. Did he cheat on you, or is he talking about how hot some other chick is?
If he cheated, then dump his sorry butt. If he's ogling a picture, then it depends. If he actually knows this girl, then call him on it and make sure he isn't planning or trying to cheat. If it's just some piece of porn he's infatuated with, it's most likely harmless, for now. Just tell him it bothers you and don't let it escalate.
2007-04-06 05:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either need to accept the fact that he has a past with other girls or you need to get out of the relationship. He's with you now isnt he? So you do mean something to him.
2007-04-06 05:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by jesssikahhh_x3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same as what the first 3 people said.
2007-04-06 05:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what. He isnt a virgin.... MOVE ON. If you dont like it, then dont date him. But I can almost guarantee that you are going to run into this almost 100% of the time. Good luck
2007-04-06 05:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it
2007-04-06 05:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion you don't have the right to react like that
why?:
because it's already past.
you should think who's with him right now.
i don't really understand what is wrong.
2007-04-06 05:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol !
its good to know you are no longer her gal
coz i hate it when guys are playing with our feelings.
2007-04-06 05:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Queenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do that. Hubby and I had partners before we met.
2017-01-21 20:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, who is he with now?
thus who does he like more?
2007-04-06 05:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋