I have a BIG problem!!!! I am with this guy and we have been experiencing problems. Almost everyday we argue over lil things b/c of him n im not use 2 arguing like dat it gets tiring! but he takes good care of me n my son. Now a guy dat I know from when I was a lil girl has moved bak in2 town n he wants 2 take me out! He's constantly textn n calln my phone! Telln me he want 2 b wit me n help me take care of my son n he want 2 make me happy n maybe marry me. Not to mention my son father has been tryn 2 come bak into my life also, n he want me 2 move out of town with him so we can get bak togetha n b the family that we suppose 2 b! WHAT SHOULD I DO????!!! I AM SOOOO CONFUSED!!!
2007-04-06 04:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by MsBossy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geeez girl....your options are not open right now because you are in a relationship with someone else. Obviously you don't care for the guy your with because you allow other people to text you and ask you out
Then you have your babies dad wanting you back.....try and remember why you broke up in the first place. then reevaluate why you would take him back..
My suggestion would be to weigh out the pros and cons in each potential boyfriend. Then do what is right for you and your baby
2007-04-06 05:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the guy u r with, dump him. If u argue over little crap, then u shouldn't even be together. And about ur childhood friend, tell him thanx for wanting to be supportive. And 'bout ur son's father, give him a probabtion period relationship, see if u guys can work it out and be a family for ur son. But, i wouldn't move if I were u. If things don't work out with him, then try ur childhood friend. He seems really nice and caring.
2007-04-06 05:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a relationship, and you owe it to yourself, and your man to see where that is going first.
You have to decide if your boyfriend is the one for you. If you decide that he is not, break it off cleanly. After that, then you can start deciding between your other suitors.
You say he takes good care of you, but how happy are you and your son. Money is not the solution to everything.
2007-04-06 05:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
which one is better with your son? He is more important in the relationship that you thats just how it is. Which one has the best qualities do you want your son to be raised by the first one where he thinks it is ok to argue??
2007-04-06 05:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by happy_go_lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be confused as well, this is going to be tuff for you. All I can say is be sure to be honest with yourself.
2007-04-06 05:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Miller 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋