ear lobe everytime we are smooching, it relly annoys me. should i tell her, i dont want to hurt her feelings as her mum dad brother sister and both sets of grandparents were all killed in a train crash this morning.
2007-04-06 04:29:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rub some feces on it.
2007-04-06 10:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa E 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Saddo, you have caused more harm by not telling her. However, wait when you are next smooching then you guide her to do the right thing.
That fact that she is your gf means she trust you and loves to respect your feelings. So, just tell her the truth that you will like her to stop sucking on your ear lobe, but that everything else she does to you is wonderful except for that.
The idea is to say it as it is...The issue that most of her entire family got killed this morning is sad but if she is in the mood for smooching then she must be guided to do it right so that both of you enjoy it.
If you keep communicating base on the fact that you don't want to hurt her feelings then you will be killing the one thing that ensure the relationship will survive... and that is communication! So, Tell Her!!!
Do not be rude when telling...just say it and suggest some other thing that she can do for you that will make the smooching time much more exiciting for you. Also, try to find out what else you can do for her that will make her enjoy that time with more.
I am very sure she isn't aware that what she might be doing isn't making you feel good. She probably read or heard that doing that for her man will most likely give him a lot of pleasure...so you need to communicate with her....
Just Tell Her, but with deep compassion!
2007-04-06 12:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit being a whiner...your annoyed....look at how she feels right now! Many people find that hot, but if you don't then move out of it, and into some other position, she'll get the point if you keep doing it. Also,try telling her it tickles and breaks your concentration. Sucking your earlobe may do it for her, and if it arouses her, you may have to give in every now and then. Most important thing is stop being concerned with this type of trivial thing when she's got a whole lot more to deal with. Suck it up for now, and just be there for her, she will need you!
2007-04-06 11:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all if you are serious that her family have all been tragically killed this morning. you are one selfish self absorbed bs. i don't quite believe the circumstances you are talking about. however, i will give you the benefit of doubt.
its too sensitive to talk about this now. just pretend she is sucking on something else when she does it next time and when you have seen that she has began to regain her life after this horrible time. take her out to dinner or something she likes and when you get home watch a movie that has a similar problem to yours and comment on it sensitively. she will ask and then you can talk about it. hopefully the movie will have a good ending that its not anything wrong with her but its preference and she wont be too hurt. whichever way if she isn't too proud she will get over it. its not like all you do she likes but probably too nice to say.
by the way shouldn't you be helping her sort out the funeral arrangements instead of asking such questions at such an inappropriate time. you sure are lucky you ain't my man! that's for sure
2007-04-06 12:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by nubian 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guy up there said tobasco sauce... unless she has a really mild taste for spice thats not enough, go find a fast food restraunt called buffalo wild wings and get the hottest sauce on the menu, i guarantee you she will stop. that stuffs like 20x as hot as the second hottest, i can handle almost any hot sauce but that stuff is torture, not even fun to eat just torture. told my mom to but a drop on her buffalo wing.... so she puts a lil on, takes a bite, and pretty soon she is crying lol.
ummm ok on the serious note WHY THE HELL R U COMPLAINING ABOUT THAT IF HER WHOLE FAMILY JUST DIED? plus, if she gets the earlobe thing right it's great. get her to nip instead of just suck.
2007-04-06 11:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Train crashes happen all the time. In fact, I was in one this morning. Tell her to leave you alone.
2007-04-06 11:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by pancakes & hyrup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, but definitely wait on it for a bit. In fact probably be a good idea to go easy on the smooching altogether for a bit.
2007-04-06 11:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes tell her. Smooching is supposed to be pleasurable for both of you.
2007-04-06 11:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is actually a set of sex behaviour...she like to suck ur earlobe thats for sure,it shows sense of control really.so just tell her in a very very smooth way if u really dont like it..before u both smooch okay...
2007-04-06 11:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've dated one of those too. You need to nip it in the bud. But given the circumstances, you may want to give her a day or to get the grieving out of her system.
2007-04-06 11:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by sef567 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just tell ehr that u don't feel comfortable with what she's doing and u betta prefer a smooch on da lips
2007-04-06 11:32:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋