Love???????

Question

How do you know if you're in love... or if your just lusting?

Answer 1

If you want the best for someone, even if it means a sacrifice from you, it is love. If you still think they are beautiful even when they sick in bed, it is love. If you still feel warmth in your heart for them even if they hurt you, it is love. If you can walk away from them when they reject you and still want what is best for them, it is love. If the feeling never goes away even if they do, it is love. If what you feel is greater than anything else, including faith and hope, it is love.

Answer 2

Time! And more positive than negative. Lust overwhelms the senses for the first few months. When the little things he does start to annoy you and you still find him desirable it may be love. Love is enduring. Trust me the lust can be too but not the way love is. The lust is the part that gives you the rush, the part that makes your heart race. Love is the part that makes you want to walk beside them even in the least desirable circumstances.

Answer 3

Actually lust and love and lust is just a line away. I know im just lusting after hm when i can keep my intelligence in front of him after i gone on the bed with him, and do not want a second time, another method for me is, i just avoid him completely after sex.

Answer 4

i wish i truly knew this answer. but i'm guessing lust to just be the emotion, something that will pass with no assessment. while love is that which will hold you in the slumps for a while. figuring as if one does not seek further then what he sees. if one were to act on loves emotions every time i assume love would be that which keeps you there, and lust is that which caused you to fail.

Answer 5

Is it all about sex? Or do you just like to hang out and be together doing anything?

If it's just about sex, it's lust. If you're friends as well, it may be love.

Answer 6

Love is accepting the other person as is. Lust demands that you should always be attractive or rather sexy or good in bed and if you fail in this category, they will just leave you behind. Unlike in love, even if your'e physically challenged, there is always room for acceptance and genuine compassion.

Answer 7

Lots of people have asked this question. In fact, you can't really describe the feeling of love. It is something extremely special and extraordinary compared to any other crush that you had had before. You will know it when the right time comes.

Answer 8

Try not doing any thing that would make you want to have sex. Go to a park, to the zoo, just somthing that will make you fall in love with the person and not what they can or might be able to do in a bed.

Answer 9

You are going to hate this answer- but you just know. They are the reason you smile in the morning, they are the first person you think about and the last when you go to bed. But at the same time it's comfortable- so comfortable if you are just sitting there silent it's not awkward. It's hard to discribe- you'll JUST KNOW!

Answer 10

i had asked a question like that once. im not shur that any1 can tell you what love is its just somthing that you will know. all i can tell you is that when you are in love you always think about that person and you miss them the second that they are gone. also you feel all fuzzy when you are with them. love cant be explained you just got to figure it out on you own.