If hes still single at say 40 years old, would that be worth considering, because he has hes career well under control, has travelled and wants an attractive lady with morals and values and to have a family ? I dont know what to say but it could be worth considering as most women in clubs are playing games !
2007-04-06 00:45:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
NO. If a male is 35 and still unmarried, no big deal. However, if he is truly ready for a life mate, then all he need do is focus his mental energy that direction. And have patience. You get what you focus on. Carefully choose the traits you seek in a partner. Paint a mental picture or make a mental movie. Turn that over in your mind with emotion a few times a day, meditate on "her." Wait with patience and expectancy. Go ahead and express thanks for the bride that will be delivered to you. It may take a few months or even a year, but your CONSISTENT mental imagery will bring her into your reality.
2007-04-06 00:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by TN Seeker 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many 35 year olds feel rather old in clubs. How about pursuing your interests and joining a club or society? That might improve your chances of finding love.
I believe that mail order brides are a last resort, not to mention a rather sexist notion. Does it not smack of ownership? How about the questionable morality of paying a website, almost certainly run by the Russian Mafia, for a bride?
Have you really exhausted all other possibilities? There are lots of lonely hearts out there looking for love and companionship.
One last thought, say you did marry a Russian bride and she stays with you bears your children, at some point you are going to have to tell your kids that their mum is a mail order bride. They won't respect you for that.
2007-04-06 01:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by hobart paving 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a person was to feel that way and want to go that route for a family, I would personally go for a latina or asian. They have a better sense of family for one, and I have seen two cases of both asian and latina women come over here from international "dating" sites, and still be married with no end in sight. Russian women...I would not trust that for a minute. I would not give up on meeting someone here if I was whoever the guy is at 35 just yet. But if the urgency is there for a family right now, and that is the route that person wants to go, consider latina or asian.
2007-04-06 00:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking. ALthough the "mail order" bride idea is not horrible, isn't it better to actually really meet someone and get to know them.If you want to teach someone English, and all about our country then go for it. But, to give you something else to think about, I met my husband when he was 35 almost 36. We had our first child when he was 38. He is now 50 and I am 39. We have been married 13 years!
2007-04-06 00:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go to his church to meet a fine woman that he can get to know first.
Consider how many blind dates go bad. Can a blind marriage be any better? How would he know what he was getting in the way of morals & values and attractiveness until it was too late?
Another way of looking at it is to imagine buying a car without seeing it or driving it, just going by what the SALESMAN said about it?
2007-04-06 00:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will come to that. You sound like a decent guy, and the right lady for you will come along. I think you're right though, that you probably won't meet the right one in a club. There are better places to look for a decent lady. Try joining a club or something, where you can meet someone who shares your interests. Good luck.
2007-04-06 00:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest... 35 is still in prime age. It's not exactly old yet. Why the hurry? If you think a club is a place to pick up nice chicks for marriage, I am sorry reality is going to disappoint you.
2007-04-06 00:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by ET 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off, 35 is still young. and not that i've tried it, but i serisouly doubt that mail order is what it's cracked up to be.
try expanding your search. maybe you're just looking in the wrong place. focus on your interests, join a group and attend the events. you never know who you'll meet.
religious? try a church group.
like the outdoors? join a hiking club for the weekend trips
etc...
good luck :)
2007-04-06 02:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he should go for it and get severely ripped off in the process. Russian mail order brides are notorious as a total rip off.
2007-04-06 00:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
35 isn't old so I think he should look in the states before he goes abroad. Believe me there are some good women out there looking for a good man. They are both hard to find. My husband looked 39 years before he found me..lol..
2007-04-06 00:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Donna 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋