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I am, my boyfriend is ignoring me now, think hes eother cheating on me or gone off me, but i love him so much dont want to let go. (see my other posts!), i dont have any real friends, the ones that i feel really close to, and im at my uni house by myself.. and its such a lovely day. How can i stop feeling like this? Im so depressed 2day and woke up having sad thoughts.. i hate my life sometimes! is anyone else feeling generally depressed and lonely?

2007-04-06 00:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by yo 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I did until I slapped myself (literally). You have to snap out of it. Get rid of the asshole boyfriend. Have a talk with yourself and figure out why you always end up with jerks. Start ignoring HIM and see how he comes crawling back, begging for attention. Do not cave in, continue IGNORING him. make HIM feel miserable. What is your passion? Maybe dancing, singing, drawing? Find a group, a club in town concerning that and expand your talent. Buy books on self esteem and loving yourself. You will love the process, I promise. If you start loving yourself and stop searching for pity, everything else will come to you. Good luck!

2007-04-06 01:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by stargazer 2 · 0 0

Try not to rely on others to make or bring you happiness.
If it is such a lovely day where you are, can you go for a refreshing walk, telling yourself along the way that you wont accept anything less than the 'best' for yourself?
You sound like you are in an emotional 'rut' at the moment.
Everyone goes through that at some point and some more often than others.
Focus on the positives about yourself, even make a list of all the good things in your life. Pin it to your fridge next to the photo of your smiling face. Become your own best friend.
Maybe join a club or group revolving around something that really interests you, you'll meet like-minded people, maybe gain some new friends.
There are always 'positives' that you can use as (re)starting points to use as stepping stones to a happier life.
Go girl.

2007-04-06 01:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by lulu 3 · 0 0

well i have no idea what a bank holiday is but i have been depressed for a long time my mom died i got divorced and lost my job all in the same week (this was a few months ago) you just need to snap your self out of it put on some good music get a new dress and put on some makeup screw that lame *** boyfriend go out and have some fun as for friends make new one if the old ones are no god just don't sit around thinking about how miserable you are or you'll never feel better trust me i was so low for a long time I'd go days with out a shower and was starting to really loose it with everyone my kids my husband and finally i just got so sick of how i was sinking i just picked my self up and started over i didn't want to go to a doctor or go on med's sometimes you can only rely on your self and this darling is one of those times go shake a tail-feather you'll feel better getting out in the sun will help too good luck

2007-04-06 00:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by auntie s 4 · 0 0

I know exactly what your saying... Every year i look forward to the day and i love watching the lights come on at my local plaza and always so excited for them, this year is different. It seems sad and i feel depressed not even really looking forward to this christmas. Im kind of going through a hard time maybe something is standing in the way of your happiness this christmas? The world doesnt stop for anyone, even if its almost christmas time if you know what i mean. We need this xmas to come and go! Everything will get better afterwards and then comes new years which is a fun fantastic night! Good luck happy holidays!

2016-04-01 00:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i definitly feel like that alot that i have no-one to talk to and that the whole world is crap my life sucks and just want to give up on everything but then i remember this saying "that when everything seems out of control and nothing is going your way just remember to Keep Breathing and you'll survive" it doesn't cheer me up totally but it always brings a smile to my face and a spark of hope that tomorrow will be a better day you may be in love with this guy but if he's not treating you right then it's only gonna get you down more the feeling of being without him may seem unbearable but it will pass just keep moving ahead when i get hurt or depressed i plan for tomorrow about how everything is gonna go right in the future

ie don't stop breathing and look and plan ahead for a better tomorow

i know your heart is heavy and it can seem like everything is lost but this too will pass just remember to keep breathing

2007-04-06 01:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by woot!! 3 · 0 0

I understand where you are coming from I am not having relationship troubles but I do sometimes just hate everything. I don't feel like I have lost control of my life and I just want it all to go away. I write in my journal because the friends I do have I don't want to bother them. I just don't think that they would understand. Sometimes I don't understand it. Anyways sorry I am rambling I hope your day gets better.

2007-04-06 00:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by winter wonderland 3 · 0 0

I'll be over to give you a massage in about an hour. Wear that little black thing I like so much! You want lunch again?

2007-04-06 00:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Concentrate on your education. It'll get you farther in life than that b/f of yours will.

2007-04-06 00:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No

2007-04-06 00:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0 0

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