I'm a junior in high school, I wonder why I don't got a boyfriend? all of my friends do but i don't. I don't understand it, everyone even strangers tells me I'm really pretty and always asked if i have a boyfriend. it makes me sad whenever they asked that question because i don't have one, my friends talks about their dates, dances, parties, etc i always feel left out. is it because i'm shy and quiet not like those typical gossipy girls? i don't understand, help?
2007-04-05 22:48:49 · 25 answers · asked by Isabella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a good thing. Why complicate your life? You're only in junior high. Guys will come around. By the time they do, all the other girls will be old news.
Save yourself for someone who loves and respects you. You probably have guys who like you but are too shy to say so.
Go slow, it'll happen eventually. Don't buy into that peer pressure crap. Go to dances and parties, you don't need to be on some guys arm to enjoy your life or your friends.
Good luck!
2007-04-05 22:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A part of it is due to shyness and another part of you just doesn't want to. You say it makes you feel your being left out but you are making the choices not to do these things even though you may not realize it. I think you would be happy if and when you meet a guy that you really like. You just haven't found him yet. Don't do things because everyone else is, and you feel pressured into it. There are other things you can do that might make you feel more social in what you like doing. Join a club and be with people like yourself with the same interest. If you like reading , join a book club. I've been away from school so long I don't know what is available, but you do need to be a little more social and active in some kind of group, and not be to yourself so much.
2007-04-05 23:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of girls your age would not have had a boyfriend. People at your stage of life are very much influenced by what your friends think. I understand how important it is not to be seen as different or out of the social scene. At the same time you should be living life for yourself, not to try and live up to others expectations. Getting a boyfriend because other girls have them is not a good reason. You will meet people who are like you as well as gossipy girls. You will have boyfriends when the time is right.
2007-04-05 22:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too shy. You need to open up and allow yourself to enjoy other people's company. You don't have to be gossipy to have a good personality. Try joining a club that you enjoy. Most churches have boys and girls clubs. There are plenty of hobbie clubs also. Get a friend to go to some of the dances with. Do some volunteer work with other teens in your area.
If you are a nice person, eventually you will find a boyfriend. Don't be in too much of a rush. Even shy people find boyfriends. It just doesn't happen as quickly.
2007-04-05 22:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Darlin,
I know how you feel, well kind of. I have had acouple boyfriends, in year 7 though we know they don't last long lol. But I haven't had one in years.. yes lots of people say I am gorgeous and strangers. I get jelous of my friends who go out and party, have fun with there boyfriends.. ect. I realized recently I am shy!! Look, all your friends there relationships might last awhile or very little, but in the long run there going to end. And there going to be devistated, least you don't have to go through heartbreak!! But let me promise you one thing. You WILL find a guy! May be tomorrow, a month or a year from now. But he will sweep you right off your feet, then all of your friends will be jelous.
Good Luck Gorjuz!
2007-04-05 22:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Elley s2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never a bad thing darl! You have all the time in the world... don't get a boyfriend for the sake of it. If the feeling is mutual then the relationship is more satisfying.
Just act and be confident with yourself. Most guys like girls who are shy, sexy!
2007-04-05 22:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a smart, lovely girl, it's not a bad thing for any girl to never had a boyfriend, because you have not got a RIGHT one, you should be proud because you did not get a bad friend, stay alone is better than get a bad one, so be patient and be proud with your situation, one day you will get a very nice boyfriend to love and treasure you
2007-04-05 22:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not considered bad. You don't need one, because you are stronger than them. Don't allow those girls to build a way of thinking that you ultimately need a guy figure in your life as an accessory to talk about. It's great that you'd put the common young girl dependency into question. You will do well in the future.
2007-04-05 22:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by cashew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 09:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by mayze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u are pretty, guys will have feelings that tell them u might have been attached....and u are quiet, no many guys in this world could start a conversation with u as they dun know what ur is in ur mind.
i dun think it will be bad thing for a girl to never hav bf until they married. This is what we called 'integrity'.....
or u hav very high taste and requirement in chosing bf....
2007-04-05 22:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by robinvanaugusta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋