i dont have a bf and sometimes i feel bad for it.
2007-04-05 20:43:34 · 8 answers · asked by anu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell yourself you are waiting for the right guy to come along.... i know what you are goin through, i wish i had a g/f but what can you do, right?
2007-04-05 20:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a boyfriend is a personal choice, not a reflection on your desirability. If someone has the gall to ask such a personal question, simply tell them it is not a priority on your agenda at this time.
When I was in college there was a drop-dead gorgeous girl that didn't want, never had a boyfriend, refused to date, because her end goal was to be a model in a major city, which she achieved after graduating (had been in "Vogue")...she didn't have boyfriend until she was 30 and ready for it.
2007-04-06 03:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
sometimes they say love is more than an emotion, its a state of mind.
so i think love is a sick joke, and the combination of things that happened and failed to happen leaves me more cynical than before. ultimately, one has to walk alone in this journey called life.
life is a series of pulls back and forth. you want to do one thing, but you are bound to do something else. something hurts you, yet you know it shouldnt. you take certain things for granted, even when you know you should never take anything for granted. a tension of opposites, like a pull on a rubber band. and most of us live somehwere in the middle. sounds like a wrestling match, so which side wins?
love wins. love always win
so, don't be too sad, becoz, i also don't have a boyfrd.
hahahaha
2007-04-06 03:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, I'm in the same boat as you. I have no girlfriends, mainly because I have been rejected so much to the point I feel unwanted and to go with someone better. I've came close a few times, but that doesn't count.
Keep your head up, I'm sure one of us will have someone.
2007-04-06 03:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by *One Of A Kind* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if u dont have a bf, dont have to feel bad for it... why rush for it and missed the best ones when they are just around you... Is just that the guy dont know how to appreciate you...
You will find yours soon.... Keep it up. Dont worry..
2007-04-06 03:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by doraemon11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend. You shouldn't feel bad for not having one. If anything, you should be proud you do not need male attention all that much to be happy with life or with yourself.
2007-04-06 03:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Honesty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why u feel bad, i think you need some change, your hair, dress, make-up, shoes, then bf will come.
2007-04-06 03:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by emma l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a female?
can ui send us your prifile pls?
2007-04-06 03:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋