why do parents intentionally put their kids thru lifelong pain..i look like my parents and they are both ugly...why parents do this??..i wouldnt have a child if i knew i was ugly.
2007-04-05 19:59:31 · 24 answers · asked by Ask ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
that's selfish and also self hateful to say. did you ever think maybe they love/loved each other. not everyone has a relationship just because theyre both attractive. that's like saying, if you're ugly you shouldn't be allowed the joy of having a child. and you said your parents are ugly and you look just like them, and you wouldnt have a child if you knew you were ugly? so basically you're saying you've already decided you will never haev a child? you shouldnt ever deny yourself happyness.
2007-04-05 20:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are Your Parents Really That Bad??? Maybe They Loved Each Other And Wanted To Share That Love With A Child. If You Call Yourself Ugly Then You're Going To Be Ugly. Maybe You Should Fix Yourself Up, Go On A Shopping Spree Or Something. Personality Usually Outshines Appearance. No One Wants To Be With A Hot Jerk, Eventually They Will Get Tired Of Them. I Pick Personality Over Appearance All The Time.
2007-04-06 03:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why be selfish?
Has it ever occurred to you that they're together because they're in love, and they had you out of love?
You're only ugly if you think you are ugly, or if you have an ugly personality. I guess it's obvious now. To call your parents ugly and to blame them for your ugliness is really juvenile. Granted, you never asked to be born to this world but since you are, make the best of it. Beauty is not the only thing to live for in thi world. Geez...
I don't pity you at all. But I do pity your parents for having such an ungrateful child. Grow up. And if you don't, then probably you deserve to be ugly forever.
2007-04-06 04:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all true beauty is within! The most beautiful person could be soo ugly on the inside. Your parents had you bcuz they love one another and wanted to pass that special love on so others could share it as well! They are your parents, and if you feel like this towards them, u shouldn't have any kids because they too will be ugly (inside) and bitter.
2007-04-06 03:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nek Nek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They had you because they wanted a child, and because a child is a gift from God, they are happy with what they have. Plus, a child is literally a piece of each other to creat a living, breathing, human being! They wanted the joy of being a parent.
They may not think you ugly because they love you and know your heart and personality.
I think you need to think this over. Sit down and consider it.
The more you think you are ugly, the uglier you become, inside AND out.
2007-04-06 04:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are ways to overcome being unattractive. A great sense of humor, a kind heart, a great career, being a sincere person. Why do you think that you can not be happy, just because you feel unattractive? Everyone sees something different in each person they meet. There is someone out there for you. You won't find them sitting around worrying about your outward apprearance. Show the wonderful person that you are inside. The right person will notice.
2007-04-06 03:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need serious help your attitude is appalling......... they decided to ga\have a child coz they wanted a family its not about deliberately having an ugly child. just how shallow and mindless are you. In fact although i can not see you YES your ugly but i dont mean on the outside your actual appearance im saying your ugly on the inside by the train of thoughts you have ......... grow up .
2007-04-06 05:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you're ugly? I'll bet your not. Find a feature you like and emphasize it. If you're a guy work on becoming smart or interesting or fun. Don't be afraid to look a little different. Good luck.
2007-04-06 03:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by sheree_98133 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-x times -y yields positve results look at parents of supermodels beauty is in the brains I bet your parents were attracted to each other. otherwise we would all want to be with top 1% fortunately our brains are smarter your not defective just not as attractive to as many people open mind find people if you like yourself people will find u attractive I presume your not a model, very shallow question most people now like women thinner some time ago fat women were hot THE BRAIN IS WHAT IS NEEDED YOU BRAIN IS HAVING UGLY THOUGHTS WHAT DO YOU EXPECT ID APOLIGIZE TO YOURS IF THEY WERE GOOD PARENTS
2007-04-06 03:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by mattw170000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are they suppose to know they are ugly? i know a lot of ugly people that dont know they are ugly. and so what if they are ugly, ugly people cant fall in love and make a family just like anyone else. and what if ur not ugly, what if u just have low self esteem
2007-04-06 03:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋