From a psychological standpoint, what do people think about guys like this? You know who I'm talking about: The type of guy who never really gets involved in a long term relationship, but has plenty of "girlfriends" who are in relationships already. What are people's thoughts about people like this?
2007-04-05 19:35:00 · 17 answers · asked by ihc_div1_mem3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes the "alpha male". Women seem to love such guys.
2007-04-05 19:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a an Ego thing and it's also a commitment thing.
Ego
By being able to take these girls' attention away from their boyfriends, he feels like he's winning a game. He gets laid and he beats out the other guy
Commitment Phobia
He doesn't like relationships, maybe even fearful of them. By bedding these girls, he gets the attention he wants without having the commitment.
Everyone has their reason so you will never know what is going on in these guys or even girls heads.
2007-04-05 20:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i for one thinks its really not good, I mean its like a disease or something that needs to be stop! these guys have their issues thats why they dont commit into a long term relationship, They might have been in a long term relationship once, got hurt and to ease the pain, they went out being a playboy (the guys you think helps girls to cheat on their bfs) hey, its wrong but dont judge them, they may be happy outside but you know inside? they're dying to have a long term relationship just like you do, the problem is, they dont admit they have a problem, they think its their life, but really, there's a much better life waiting for them, they just dont see it, just observe one, if someone finds his true love, he'll change., I know mine did, and now we're happier than ever.
2007-04-05 19:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
takes two to tango if i know the type then both want that way either getting what they or dopes both fit into either category generally the same and you never really know what is going on. get a life pay attention to yours learn about what you really want a whore is someone who does something they don't probably they do want this probably have the best marriage when if they make a decision. they know/honest with themselves
2007-04-05 19:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by mattw170000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you judge guys like that consider that it take two to tango. Its isn't completely his fault if she consented to it. I will say that a guy like that isn't my favorite type of person but I am just assuming everyone is going to make him into this villianous evil person and forget that the girl had to agree to it. Unless she didn't agree to it, but then thats something different altogether and a guy who does THAT should never see the light of day.
2007-04-05 19:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those guys are disgusting...I mean really, why take girlfriends from guys who are ready to settle in a serious relationship unless you're willing to do the same...
2007-04-05 19:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kiss T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So enable your boyfriend understand. Be like "guy i'm so bored. putting out with (guy's call) is boring, and putting out with him without you makes me omit you greater. i desire you're taking area in your self, 'cuz i'm no longer. <3" merely say something like that, enable him understand what you're doing and tell him you permit out him. Hell, textual content cloth it to him then there is not any concerns.
2016-11-07 08:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by mathison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever to them my opinion is they have no respect for relationships or the people involved in them.
2007-04-05 19:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you meaning friends that are girls or girls he's dating? Either's a bit weird, but if the latter, he's afraid of commitment and/or just a slime.
2007-04-05 19:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Brittae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he gay? What kind of relationship does he have with these girls? Sex? or just hanging out? I wouldn't sweat it.
2007-04-05 19:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by sheree_98133 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋