Should i call him or wait for him to call me?

Question

My bf and i had an argument about 5 days ago and he rudely hung up on me and has not bothered to reslove it with me. No txt msg nor phone call. My friends are telling me not to call him wait for him to call... im really not sure what to do. Is it over between us???

Answer 1

It Depends On The Situation. Were You In The Wrong Or Was He? If He Was And He Got Angry And Hung Up On You, I Wouldn't Bother Calling Him. But If I Was Wrong, I Would Let Him Cool Off For A Day OR Two, And Call Him And Talk To Him About The Relationship. Dating Is All About Communication, If You Don't Have That Then What Is It Based On?

Answer 2

In a way it doesn't matter what the argument was about. It looks as though by his lack of actions that he has no desire to pursue this relationship any longer. But that said its really not a good way to end things with a hang up on the phone. Besides, it is very reasonable for you to want to come to some kind of conclusion to this so that you know where you stand. So I would call him...don't text...that's too impersonal...call him and simply ask where the two of you stand. If he answers that he doesn't know just gently remind him that he was the one that hung up and you will respect whatever he wants to do but you would like to know where you stand. If he won't act mature about it then simply say to him you have no other alternative but to assume you guys are thru because he doesn't want to talk about things or answer you about whether you are still together. Now.....if in fact you feel that the argument was about something that calls into question something important like his integrity then maybe you have already decided in your mind that this guy isn't for you at which time you still need to call him and say that you are sorry you fought but you have thought about it and you don't see any reason to continue this relationship. Ether way....get on the phone and find out where you both are...and I do wish you well.

Answer 3

Hard to judge from this what the argument was about and if it was serious enough to end the relationship over. The fact that your bf has not bothered to call is not a really good sign, but not the end of the world either. Men and women look at relationships in totally different ways. A woman wants to talk a problem out, a man does not.

On that note, I certainly would invest the time to make one (maybe last) call just to find out where his head is at. If it isn;t where yours is at, then it is probably time to move on.

Answer 4

Hey I have a little advice for you...I don't know if you are in to reading or not but If you are go out and get the book...men are from mars and women are from Venus..I always thought that book would be really stupid but I was bored one day and started reading it and it is actually really help full...it explained a lot of things that made seance....anyway my advice to you about your boyfriend (coming from the book and my own experience, is you should NOT call him) Wait for him to call you. Men have to go through there own little cool downs by themselves, women like to talk out there problems with the other person, but men are different and they need space alone to figure things out. So let him have his space and soon he will call you, another reason why it may be good not to call him is because you don't want to give in and make him feel like you are needy. Eventually he will work out his problems and he will also realize that you are not going to call him and that he better do it or he will loose you....I hope that this helps you...and I hope he calls soon....krystal

Answer 5

Look, He hung up on you, He chose to end it.. Basically wait it out, And if he doesn`t call you just be the bigger person and call.. Let him know what`s up and what the deal is. He might just be hurting or, He might not give a sh*t.. You can never tell with guys these days, Just don`t lose your head over him..

Answer 6

I don’t think he’ll call you and I defiantly don’t think you should call him. It sounds likes it’s over between you to. To be sure maybe you could get someone to ask him what happened between you to. Maybe he’s too proud or something to call you. He still might want a relationship with you, but he’s scared to call. If you really like him you might want to consider calling him in a couple of days. Another idea is getting a friend to find out where he’ll be at a certain time and you should “accidentally” bump into him. If he stops to talk to you, your sill on, if he ignores you, it’s over. Hope it all works out.

Answer 7

If you were wrong, you need to call and apologize. If he was wrong you need to call and make him apologize. Tell him that if he doesn't, he can hit the road permanently. You don't need some guy playing games with you for the rest of your life, and you don't need to be playing games with him either. If you think you are in love, then be mature about the situation. Love is not a game.

Answer 8

You should call, but if he doesn't answer or if someone says he's not around and you know that he is....then end it with him. You don't have to deal with people who don't care and move on because there are plenty fishes out in the sea (if you know what I mean). Do what you think is more comfortable for you and don't degrade yourself because someone is not responding to you at an important time.

Answer 9

I mean, HE hung up on you so he should call you back. But he is your boyfriend and sometimes in relationships you have to bite your tongue and swallow your pride, for the relationship. Call him up and try to reslove it and see where the relationship stands. Don't listen to your friends, because in the end it's yours and his relationship, no one elses.

Answer 10

The only way to know for sure is if you wait. If he doesn't feel the need to call and apologize then he is not worth running after. Don't call him is my advice to you.