whats the best way to tell a girl that you like her, but not ruin the friendship if she doesnt feel the same?

Answer 1

Well, it is a leap. Just be honest and because you two are good friends, she should do the same.

Answer 2

Make sure that its just you two alone some were its quite tell her you have something important you need to talk to her about.start by saying you know you two have been friends for along time and her friendship means a lot to you and you don't want to lose her as a friend but recently you been have thoughts and feelings on how things would be if you two were more than friends.tell her that you've been developing feelings for her that are more than friendship wise tell her how you feel you know how beautiful, smart, funny ,sexy, kind she is how ever you look or think about her than say if she feels the same way you wouldn't mind talking the friend ship to the next level if not you are find with staying just friends and you apologize if you made her feel uncomfortable than ask her if your cool. than tell her lets go and you guys go around a group of friends this so you two don't be alone if she doesn't feel the same way, then she wont feel weird or bad or anything.OH YEAH (don't look sad, hurt, or depressed around her if she doesn't feel that way) Good Luck

Answer 3

Just tell her something like "You know what, I really like you and not in a friend way but I don't want to pressure you into anything. I just wanted to get this off my chest because it has been building up inside of me and I don't want it to get in the way of the increadible relationship I have with you; in fact, it is because we have such a good friendship that I have been lessed with the opportunity to get so close to you and know you so well that I have fallen for you. Whatever happens I am happy just being with you and hope you take what I said as a sincere compliment from one friend to another and a sign of so much trust in you and faith in our friendship that I was willing to take the chance to tell you. We don't have to be boyfriend and girlfriend but I had to tell you and I hope you will both forgive me for telling you and admire that I had the guts to tell you. I won't bring this up again unless you ask but I thought I needed to tell you and that you should know. So, how was your day?"

The trick is to tell her calmly and almost aloof. You can't put any pressure on her but you need to seem earnest about your feelings for her as a friend and more without seeming obsessed. Tell her like it is a compliment and not a desperate attempt to get her to like you more than a friend.

Answer 4

Make it into a joke. Be able to brush it off if she doesn't seem to be taking the bait so to speek. If you joke around and say shesyour girlfriend to someone or say "oh you know you like me" the reaction should be able to give you a clue. And with that clue just tell her how you feel. We all go through this. If shes a real friend it won't ruin the frienship.

Answer 5

all i can say is, keep on at the same time with your heart guy. in case you sense that she's the single, then you really gotta do what feels correct. if she's gonna destroy issues off, i hate to assert it and excuse my language yet "don't be A *****". you gotta be assertive if she consciously is acquainted with that she's doing it. it really is this psychological tick in a women mind that she would not know what to do. if she has finished it to her ex's don't be really one of them. be diverse from them and tell her "no... i dont favor to chop up with you. i do not favor to be in simple terms acquaintances. i do not favor to be a brotherly determine to you. i favor to be more advantageous than that. i appreciate you and that i favor to be with you". if a woman can't be sure her heart, help her make the alternative or someone will thieve the threat from you.

Answer 6

you are doom. So give hints and then tell her you like her and it is alright if she dod not feel the same cause her friendship mean so much to you and you would not want your feelings to get your feelings in the way.

Answer 7

Ask her if she'd like to take the friendship to another level, that you would. If she says that she does, great, If not, say that your friendship is important in any case.

Answer 8

say exactly what you just asked right now. tell her you like her, but if she doens't really feel the same way, tell her its ok and that you still want to keep your friendship. then, just try to act like you normally do.

Answer 9

It cannot be done. She will always know that he loves her and he will not let that feeling go. Why? Because it is so right for him. It will always be the discomforting reality of the relationship. He will then know unrequited love in the form of the worst heart aches imaginable.

Answer 10

Tell her that you like being her friend. Then, say, "You know, girls are sooo different from us boys...so just to be clear, I would like to know exactly what you expect from me as your friend. I mean, would you want to take it to the next level or just remain just pals?"