What should I do?

Question

I think I should give up on women. I'm starting to think that the whole 'there is someone for everyone' thing is a farce. I'm not sure if something is wrong with me. I've had a couple gf's in the past but nothing too serious. Both of them ended up giving me the boot. I did everything I thought I was supposed to do. The main thing was I always told them I loved them and did that a lot. I was nice, thoughtful, considerate, and all that. Maybe it's the way I look. I'm kind of a big guy. I'm just under 6 foot but weigh around 300. Maybe third time isn't a charm. If not, I'll learn to live with it.

Answer 1

Yes there is someone for everyone, and some of us are meant to be alone too, lol.. no i'm just kidding. I don't know there's too many people in this world, there's gotta be someone for us...
Now what i see here is that you are saying that u always TOLD your girls u loved them, but ask yourself did you really feel it? Did all those nice, thoughtful and considerate things were coming out from your heart? Or did you just do it because you thought that was the right thing to do to make them love you back?
Don't worry about your looks, if that was the problem i think you wouldnt even date those girls, so don't be so insecure about it.
Just do what you feel like doing, say you love them, be nice, considerate and thoughtful when you feel like it. And if you don't feel it then it's not the right person for you either!. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Work earn lots of money. Women are attracted to money the more the better. Na really, be yourself and do not aologize for the way you are. Find somebody with common interests and build from that. Friends make the best lovers anyway. Friends stick with you. Besides 3 girlfriends and your done? You date to find the right one in life. Dating is not an automatic "we're in love forever". Its the hunt man. Don't tell anybody you don't love that you do. Being nice on the other hand is all good. Some girls do seem to like jerks but would you really want a life long relationship with an idiot. Yep, most girls are going to be just like me and you . We're looking at the hot babes not the chubby ones but when you build friendships you're not really thinking love relationship. It sneeks up on you. Make friends ( not with the sole intent of lust here) and you will have more friends and then the next thing you know one of them will wake up in your bed thinking how the heck did this come about?

Answer 3

Hey millions of guys have rotten luck with stuff in life. Slow down and relax--you aren't alone. You need to realize you are an individual--you have talents and abilities unique to you--so be proud of who you are. Your physical appearance has nothing to do with it, Millions of big guys get girls--it is how you carry yourself. Stand tall, dress nice, show self confidence- talk nice, be a good listener--be polite and respectful--you can't lose. If 300 is too heavy then lose some--it is what you eat--like everything else in life--it is all up to you---weight loss is easy if you stop eating crap. Is food your friend when you feel down about stuff---hey change all that stuff---crappy food can affect you whole brain--cause behavior and depression problems--check with a doctor--it will help---then when you loose weight you will probably look and feel a little better. But the girl issue is all different--it is something that happens to millions of guys---hang out at new places--change the hobbies and join a club---hey try something new. There is always hope. Try looking for a different type of woman--maybe you choose the wrong type--if you do change and find one, be cool, have fun and enjoy yourself--it will be OK. Good luck

Answer 4

If you lose a hundred it can only help with women and your health.
Don't think of women in terms of How to talk to them, and how to make her happy, Be yourself and she will see that. Doing all that crap will put an edge on things.

Answer 5

You are being to nice to them, girls don't want you to tell them yo love them over and over all the time. There is a reason the bad boys get the best girls, it's the way girls want to be treated. Stop being so nice, girls just think you are a wimp.

Answer 6

dont ever give up on love.. whatever you do
because just when you think you wont ever love again it will find you
so just be the best person you can be and eventaully a woman will fall in love with you

Answer 7

just wait for her. depending on your age, tryout for the skool football team. based on your demensions you sound like the PERFECT defensive tackle. women love jocks. if that doesnt work, just twice is waytoo few to give up on. keep tryin man. have faith!!!