I'm in love, what do i DO??

Question

Ok, well my b/f of a year, broke up with me because he was falling in love with me.... but didn't want to get that far obviously, or he wouldn't of admitted he cheated on me 6 of the 13 months we were together. When he broke up with me, i REALIZED I love him. But He is still with the "MISTRESS" grrr... WHAT DO I DO!!! :(

Answer 1

I think that you only realized you love him, because he said it to you and that put it into your head. DO NOT go down that destructive path. Let this relationship go, he's a cheater...and that's all you need, right. You are the one who has won in all of this. He's a cheat and the poor girl he's with has to deal with his crap, you, on the other hand are free and clear to pursue a better relationship with a better man.

Answer 2

Cut your losses...once a cheater, always a cheater! This guy doesn't deserve your love but there are plenty of non-cheatin' guys out there that do. Enjoy the fact that he'll probably cheat on the "mistress" as well. Have some drinks with the girls, pick up some cute guys, shed a few tears if absolutely necessary but move on, sister. Good luck :)

Answer 3

Find some one else more trustworthy. It's not worth it to have a boyfriend if he is with other girls behind your back. That is just plain wrong. You should forgive him, and still try to be friends. I know it will be hard, and may even feel near impossible, but if you want a good, balanced, strong relationship, you should find some one who loves you and only you. Otherwise, your relationship will never be as good as it could be. Remember, never let the good things in life keep you from the best. =] Hope I helped, God Bless!

Answer 4

Forget him and move on. He has a track record of unfaithfulness AND he broke up with you because you say he was falling in love with you. Well, I am sorry but this makes no sense. If a guy is falling for you he will not behave this way.

Your best course of action is to tell yourself he died unexpectedly and never look back only to consider how unfortunate it was. He was so young.

Answer 5

ok look u should forget aboout that dude. I mean he cheated on u thats like messed up. N-o (No Offence). U should just try to forget about him i guess. Search for someone else cause he really hurt u. U deserve something better than that guy. u should find someone else that really loves u and wouldnt break ur heart.

Answer 6

It hurts doesn't it? Unfortunatly it's probably too late. I'm not a pessimist or anything, but if a guys like that, then i'd leave him on the curb. You can find plenty of other guys who are right for you.

Answer 7

forget about him! hello. you need to get some self esteem and tell that loser to get lost! you are better than that and if he wants to go be with his whore mistress, he's better off with just that, a whore, not a good girl like yourself. he doesnt love you if he did that to you and you should be SO HAPPY it's over.

Answer 8

He was with another half of the time he was with you......
And you love him? Candy is always the best when ya cant have it. PLEASE leave him to his mistress. And you concentrate on who YOU are and what YOU want, before you toss your life away on him. Sounds like you have a lotta living to do, before you put your life on hold for ANYONE.........

Answer 9

uh, you forget about him. that's a stupid reason to break up with someone. honestly that seems like a lie, if you love someone you want to be with them. like you want to be with him even though he cheated on you. you shouldn't be with someone who cheated on you and left you. really, you should try to forget about him.

Answer 10

already cheated on you.......move on as his behavior will most likely continue and I'm sure there is someone else out there who is more deserving of you!