I know my nick name is ToughChick but im not so tough here.Me and my X-BF were dating,it was awsome!It was like he was the perfect one like magic.But then we had some communication problems,so I told him that we should take a break.Now the prob is I still have feelings for him but can you blame me?If he wasnt even talking to you that much is it worth it?Well I have no ideo what to do cause I think hes fully moved on,alittle help?
2007-04-05 16:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to him about your feelings you may not know how He is feeling too until he tell you himself
2007-04-05 16:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there really is no set time on getting past whatever happened--if he moved on--the only thing you can do is move on also--I mean--plenty of people go through this--it's a shame when people break up--but it happens. Millions of couples have a great time--then it falls apart--who knows why. I see it as a learning experience---learning who and what is right for you is important--you don't stay with the first guy you meet--how do you know if he is good or bad or silly or stupid or abusive---hey --you have got to move around and learn about guys and the world around you. Relax and enjoy yourself---go get another nice guy--talk and laugh and have fun---you will be OK...Good luck
2007-04-05 23:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took that risk when you asked for a break. Guys think "a break" is girl code for it's over. If women were more open and honest when breaking up with guys, we wouldn't wonder what you meant so often. We are always told "why can't he get the hint?", well he got your hint. Only problem is that isn't what you meant, oh well. You win some and you lose some...
2007-04-05 23:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and see what he thinks. and just go on from there. if you still have feelings for one another then you shouldnt hide it. why did you go on a break anyway? i was going to do that but in a guys mind taking a break is practically breaking up. maybe he thinks that you have moved on. i think right now you two need communication, what caused this problem in the first place.
2007-04-05 23:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by lovehimforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has moved on, then you need to do the same. Guys don't like it when you chase after them. Start dating again and if it meant to be, then he will come back to you and if not you are better off without him. Don't be the second choice.
2007-04-05 23:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me I think that you should just sit back and chill. Hang out with your friends and get to know some other guys. Try to forget about the other one. Hey, you might even change your mind about the guy!?
2007-04-05 23:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by lynette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have his number or e-mail, call/write and find out. If he hasn't moved on, go ahead. If he has, chalk it up as a learning experience and move on yourself.
2007-04-05 23:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's life, babe.. you must move on also.. someday you'lle find mr, right for you, and much better than the past relationship you had with your ex.
2007-04-05 23:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by snd_jeddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋