Ok, theres this girl at school that keeps messin with me, and she kept hitting me the first couple of days, then saying hi and bye in a way i'n suppose to me scared of her or something.... She has a boyfriend, but got made at him (her boyfriend is a friend of mine) for "no" reason and broke up, afterthat it was quiet then she startin' messing with me again and saying hi in the halls , she just keeps doin' stuff that a little elementary school girl would do to a boy if she liked him....in my class people are saying that she likes me and stuff... Today for example she walked up to me and sort of smiled, and squeezed her eyes then walked away... does the breaking up with her boy friend thing, and messing with and continusly saying Hi and bye to me relate?? Does this mean she likes me, I mean i kinda like her too but i'm kinda shy when she does things around me.... is she shy???
2007-04-05 15:43:58 · 18 answers · asked by Hikaru S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like elementry drama to me! just leave her alone and she will get bored and leave you alone. she has nothing better to do then to bug you so just don't show her that you care and she will think "wow this is boring" and she will go find another "victim".
you just got to relize that since you are still in school (I'm guessing that your still in school) that you are going to have to deal with bullys. bullies think it's funny and intertaining to pick on others. it also makes them feel better about themselfs. they are no better then you or I and they have no right to treat people like that.
just remember that if you are going to have her stop doing that to you, don't become a bully yourself. then you are just adding to the problem not solving it.
good luck!
2007-04-05 15:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 02:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duhhh, ofcourse she likes you. She is trying to do everything she can to get your attention but doesn't want to come out and say that she likes you. She wants you to approach her. Girls just do stupid things like hit you, bump into you (acting like it was a mistake), bend over in front of you, etc. You name it we'll do it. When a guy is shy and won't come out of his shell and make the first move he'll either miss out on the chance to ask her out or she will continue to do what she's been doing, hoping that the guy will one day say or do something that will show that he's interested too.
2007-04-05 15:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by cheryl h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hat eto sound like a ***** but i did the same thing... the reason she might have broken up with her bf for no reason is because she might like u . the childish flirting may be a sign that she wants to get ur attention at all means. She also could be scared that wat ever relationship u might have with her might effect her "friend" status w/ her x. i think i did the same exact thing and its kinda scary cause its still going on right now soo if u have any specific detailed questions ask me cause im unfortunetly putting some1 through it
2007-04-05 15:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her; TRUST ME. She is not a very good kind of girl to date and she'll only cause you grief. If she broke up abruptly with your friend, what'll keep her from doing the same to you? Also, all the pinching and hitting is an extreme sign of immaturity. Find a better girl;this one seems like she's only trying to make your friend jealous.
2007-04-05 15:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by saintmeghan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one that knows if she's shy. If you're not sure if you like her don't act on it, especially is he's your friend's ex. Things could get messy. Maybe you should get to know her and observe to see if she messes with other people as just part of her personality.
2007-04-05 15:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man, "bros before hos" - and she definitely sounds like one if she wants to mess with your head like that. And you don't need to get with a girl that dated your friend - how would you feel if your girl left you and started seeing your friend? Stay AWAY from her. There's plenty of fish in the sea that are alot better than her.
2007-04-05 15:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
shes probably tryin to get her ex cut, well i think she does like too, try ignorin her nd dnt smile and see if she likes u still. And shes not shy if she does all that stuff, ur not mean to be shy either nffn to be scared of :)
2007-04-05 15:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by ghadz7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think she might not know how she feel's.
and she wont until she knows what you think of her first
do u no what i mean,
she would like u maybe if u show'd her a sign that u wanted B freinds but if u show that she disgusts you she will get shy and will become afraid 2 show you how she feels
2007-04-05 15:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by kjoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound to me like she's shy at all. You should tell her how you feel. Then at least you'll know one way or the other.
2007-04-05 15:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋