please tell me
2007-04-05 15:43:51 · 23 answers · asked by corey_quinlan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Things said in moments of passion are feel good emotions. A true test of character is if those things said will be adhered to long after the moment is past. When you are young, this is not possible. Which is okay, change and character comes with time and life experience and is not expected with puppy love. I will go out on a limb here and make the assumption you are young. Let it go, there is so much more experience and life ahead of you. Partners are like streetcars, another one will be along shortly.
2007-04-05 15:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the time I'm sure that is how someone may have felt. But, honey, in life there are no guarantees. You can't depend on people and what they promise. When people get married they promise to stay married until death. I'm sure there were times when you broke a promise or maybe you let someone down because of what you said you would or wouldn't do. Move on honey. Life is too short to ponder over questions like this.
2007-04-05 23:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by cheryl h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not always that simple. Sometimes, things just do not work out the way we had planned and it sucks when you are on the other end. I know from experience, but in the long run you are probably better off without her since she is fickle. Find someone who you can trust, confide in and when that right person comes along, you will know. They will keep their word and the promises will not be broken. Hang in there.
2007-04-05 22:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those promises, while might be sincere when they are told, are just wishfull thinking. People change, and the relationship also changes. Sometimes it's for the good, but sometimes they slowly (or not slowly) drift appart.
So, what would you do if you promised to stay with a girl, and then the relationship goes sour? Stay with her and eventually marry her and never be happy because you just stayed for a naive promise?
2007-04-05 22:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because thats apart of life some women do things like that, she is confessed on what she wants. but dont worry there r more females out there 4 u, and she dont know that she left a good dude.but if she trys to get back wit u dont u will b makeing a big mistake!!! she might of thought he can do better then u, treat her better, or freak her better. who knows what was going through her mind
2007-04-05 22:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by SWEET_PEA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur not returning to what that person gives...... maybe ur realtionship to him/her is not anymore exciting and there are factors that the people involved in the relationship should consider to make things work....... first, u should not be selfish....... promise is not an assurance that the person is not going to dump you because tym changes ang many things happens that triggers the relationship, promises are meant to be broken so you cant count on just promise ok?
2007-04-05 22:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people should not make promises that they cant keep especially when it comes to relationships. peoples hearts can often chang especially if it is not working out between two people. so there is no point to stick around and waist eachothers time. all i can suggest is give yourself time to heal and then move on with life. you'll soon forget about this and be happy again. think positive thoughts.
2007-04-05 22:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Corey, this is a strange world---has been for millions of years---you should never be surprised by anything like this--it's just a sample of kid crap----and it shows no maturity or respect. Sorry man, just move on and find another--there's alot of gals out there who are nice and fun. Smile and good luck
2007-04-05 22:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...
I know that's rough. But those promises seem easy to keep when you're in love and all is going swell.
But when things go south, they become impossible to keep. I love you is meaningful because it means something at that moment. I'll love you forever is a promise you shouldn't make, because you don't know how you'll feel tomorrow.
2007-04-05 22:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I happen to know that more people than not will lie and/or make promises they can not keep. Good luck in finding someone honest and resolute. (I'm probably too old for you.)
2007-04-06 00:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋