He has been my boyfriend for a little more than a year. Whenever we get into an argument he doesnt believe me about anything. When we aren't arguing I still feel that he doesn't believe me. I try telling him that its the truth but he just says ok. I'm confused.
2007-04-05 15:08:49 · 30 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has been my boyfriend for a little more than a year. Whenever we get into an argument he doesnt believe me about anything. When we aren't arguing I still feel that he doesn't believe me. I try telling him that its the truth but he just says ok. I'm confused. I forgot to mention we love eachother.
2007-04-05 15:15:03 · update #1
Why in God's name would you want to be with someone who thinks that you are a liar? I really don't get why women stay with these idiot men. Do yourself a favor and get rid of the jackass before its to late!!!!
2007-04-05 15:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by signaltree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has an issue with trusting you and that is sooo sad. If he can't believe a single word that you say, then there is no way that you can possibly get through to him. He needs serious help. You are his girlfriend and you out of all of the other people should be the one whom he can truly trust. If he doesn't respect you enough to listen to you and accept that what you are saying is the truth, then it is time for you to let him go, truly. You shouldn't have to waste your time trying to get him to believe you. It's not worth the HELL. If he doesn't believe that you are telling the truth, someone else will.
2007-04-05 15:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by **Sparkle** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he sounds pretty stubborn so no matter how hard you try he's probably not going to believe you, it seems as though he's set in what he is going to believe, which seems to be nothing. What's going to happen eventually is there's gonna come a situation where this becomes unbearable and you give him a choice of either believing you or losing you. Hate to say it but trust is always a huge part of a relationship and if it stays like that then I'd definetely be wary.
2007-04-05 15:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has built within them the notion of the uniformity of nature--the future will resemble the past. Past experience always makes us form future expectations. If you always lied in the past, nobody will trust you in the future to tell the truth. If you always told the truth in the past, people will trust that you will tell the truth in the future. What you need to do is develope a reputation with your boyfriend by always being honest no matter what. If, after that, he still doesn't believe you, then you need to consider ending the relationship because there's something wrong with him. Perhaps he had a bad past experience in which somebody(s) lied to him so much that it has caused him to think everybody in the future will also lie to him. He's got baggage he hasn't dealt with, and it's having an adverse affect on your relationship. You're paying for the sins of others in his past.
2007-04-05 15:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Have some self respect. The best predictor of the future is the past. This WILL keep happening because it has been happening. Just because you've been with someone for a year does not mean "he is the one" It's not so much the arguing, it's the lack of trust.
2007-04-05 15:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. The most important thing you can do is follow your star. Plan your life as if he won't be there anyway. Volunteer at a homeless shelter, become part of a mentoring program and save a kid. Maybe you're confused because you aren't being yourself. Be yourself and beautiful things will happen. Good luck.
2007-04-05 15:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason he is blowing you off like that is because he knows you're telling the truth and he is not man enough to admit it. Stop pursuing the topic, stop the arguing, and get on with what you were doing.
2007-04-05 15:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has trust issues. Have you lied to him before? Did his ex lie to him often? Or he he acting like this because it's apart of his personality?
Either way, he needs to overcome this problem. Trust is very important in a relationship. Talk with him. See if you can find out what is causing him to think you could be lying to him.
2007-04-05 15:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you do have issues with your self image and nothing will change that but you. I understand you are mad that he was looking at porn and completely hurt that he lied but its not the worse thing he could lie about and trust me, men do not get satisfied with masturbation. Its just a release thing. as far as your added comment that he hit you...why are you wasting time on here when you should be packing your stuff to move out?? That is the ultimate dealbreaker.
2016-05-18 01:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry do say dis but ii think u should break up with him...because its not good that he doesn't trust you...in order 2 be in a relationship there has 2 be trust....or maybe he doesn't trust you because he might be doing things he doesn't want you to know of n thats y he doesn't trust you...he doesn't trust you cus he doesn't trust himself
2007-04-05 15:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by »-(¯`v´¯)-»ßångïïn©øløMåMïï»-(¯` 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why waste your time with a guy that doesnt believe the word you say, trust is a foundation in any relationship. Better think about spending some more time with him, for me hes not worth your time.
2007-04-05 15:13:04 · answer #11 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋