i need help?

Question

me and my gf of 4 years i moved bak to ms to work so we been apart for bout 9 months now the other day she said she was gonna leave me cause she said i am to clingy now today she was getting ready for school saying she was gonna look real pretty today she never got home i called her she said shes staying with her girl friend tonight she says shes not seeing any other mad or nething just say im being to clingy i really love her we are gettying married in september i just need to know if its another man or not how do i find out i really need help been loosing my mind trying to know whats going on neone have any advicew for me please?

Answer 1

4 years and you still don't know how to read your girl.... wouldn't feel to bad about it, chances are its part her fault to... ether way you need to get inside that head of hers, you need to get that store of hers, you need to relate with her, that way you'll know because you'll know her. The fact that your worried about it scares me thou because it means you don't really know her good enough to be sure... and now your going to marry her... yea be careful... clingy is a.... how do I put this... flaw'd term... its dependent on her perception of how you love her, combined with how she believes a person is to be treated in a relationship.... so if you can know these two things you'd understand better what it is thats making her think your clingy, be worried thou because that term is use alot as a way to put distance up so that your partner has a certian level of control on you... anytime your stepping on her game you'll be brink walled by such a term, which is whats got you so nervous... so maybe think honestly about giving this girl plenty of space... let the bird fly, if she comes back it could of be meet to be...