moving on .. any tips??

Question

a year and a half relationship we broke up because of her father... (assshole) to which what he says and thinks is more important that what anyone feels. no matter what have to please daddy. so she broke it off .. any tips on moving on. 3rd time breakup and can't get hurt anymore.. ???

I mean she doesn't even act like she cares .. no email or call or nothing like i can be droped from her life so easy.. i mean we were like each others lifes now its like wtf do i do. how do i move on?

Answer 1

Understand the whole Idea behind "moving on" is forgetting, thats impossiable. Nope, not going to happen, well unless you start doing enough drugs..... but try to stay away from that... ether way only things you can do to stop the burn is
1. Let it burn, yes you need to cry, break yourself down, and feel it at its full intensity.... not for ever but it has to get worse before it gets better

2. Don't expect anything from her, you need to let go of any hope you might have of this going to work out for you, don't think shes going to change, in other words, try and respect her for what she is, weather thats good or bad, its up to you weather or not you want to bet yourself up about it.

3. Forgive yourself! Thats really important, you did what you could man. If it couldn't work then realize she wasn't the one.

4. Understand this fact of life, for a little peice of mind... She well never forget you... she could see you one day, years down the line, and I don't care how little she looks at you, how much she ignores you, or how much it looks like she doesn't care. Trust that it burns her too. If it doesn't then it well, given time she'll have to accept want happen and come to terms with it, just like you...

5. True love, has nothing to do with the love... we as humans are capiable of loving just about anything, weather its killing us are not, are hearts rock! But inorder for it to be "true" the situation surronding the one you love is the most important aspect... so understand it was just love, theres someone better, truer, and more able to give you compassion out there waiting on you... so don't beat yourself up to bad until you find her... just make sure the situations line up, that you guys share the same passion in purpose, or better you guys both understand life in the same light.