i have to work
2007-04-05 14:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by leanne F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You make time. No one works 24 hours a day. Sacrifice something so you can spend an hour or 2 with them. Love finds a way. But then if you dont really love them dont do anything. Just keep in mind they wont think of you as a real friend if you blow them off.
2007-04-05 14:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sick? Like they have a cold or something more serous? There are things we have no time for and things we make time for. If it's really a friend, make time, after work, on weekends, call while driving to and from, send an email etc.. You don't have to do all of these of course, just giving suggestions on a how to give a few moments. Hope your friend gets to feeling better.
2007-04-05 21:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Smilinez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How sick, and for how long? And is it really because of work? You couldn't stop over after work, or beforehand? I don't know... I think there is something up-- Are you upset with her, or uncomfortable around ill people? It doesn't mean you aren't a friend, or that you are bad... it's just worth figuring out why you can't spare some time. p.s. Not everyone can handle illness! That's ok.
2007-04-05 21:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Working is understandable but you must have 5 minutes during the day or break or lunch to call and check in to ask how they're doing. After my car accident a couple of friends came to the hospital to see me but I was in for 8 months and was very dissappointed that many of them just seemed to forget about me. At least make a phone call. It will mean a lot to them.
2007-04-05 21:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the Friend only sick during the hours that you work?
or is it just an excuse you use so as not to have to deal with
your friends sickness?
there is no shame in not being able to deal with sick people.
there is however plenty of shame when you can't be honest about it.
2007-04-05 21:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have no time to see him/her...the least you can do is either send something like a get well soon card or a stuffed bear (if it`s a grl) with someone else...or give him/her a phone call that way he/she knows that you at least thought about him/her and that you care!!
2007-04-05 21:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by datcoloricanmami69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call - leave messages, leave emails, LET THEM KNOW YOU HAVE WORK!!!!!
ur friend will understand
2007-04-05 21:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Zuri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋