ok here is the situation this girl i really like told me not to like her when i first met her and then i didnt and now she is moving away and i like her and may never see her again. so what should i do go a head and tell her or just leave us as friends? she told me not to like her so what should i do?
2007-04-05 14:02:01 · 43 answers · asked by badfoolishchap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I met you and you told me not to like you and you didn't, but now that I am moving away you like me, and you may never see me again then I would ask you what is the point?
It would appear that you only like me now because you can't have me, I am moving.
Do you think this makes sense when the shoe is on the other side of the mud?
Maybe she is testing you and isn't moving. Maybe she is moving and will decide not to, maybe she is moving , but will return in a year, maybe if you really like her you can move with her?
2007-04-05 14:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by pitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in your same shoes pal, and i know that it will be hard for you to accept, but if she told you not to like her, then she probably is not into you. or she may have just said that because she knew she would be moving and it would make it that much harder for the both of you.
But if you will never see her again, thn GO FOR IT!!!! you dont want to live the rest of your life sayiing "What If?" just do it! tell her how you feel, how you felt, and how sad you will be when she leaves. And you should have no fear in the world, because if she rejects you, then oh well. she's moving. good luck pal. i hope everything works out for you. at least give her a friendly kiss on the cheek. trust me if you dont go through with this, you will be kickin your self in the *** for weeks. maybe even years. i did!
2007-04-05 14:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find her a nice going away present, not expensive but also not for a dollar or two. A silver chain with a small cross is a good present. You might consider a friendship ring but if you do, strongly emphasize it's to be friends only and no strings attached. Give her your phone number and address before she moves and tell her if she needs someone to talk to or write to, you'll be there to write back or listen. Don't be pushy but she just might come around. You'll never know if you don't try.
2007-04-05 14:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by notadeadbeat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.
She probably liked you when she first met you, but told you not to like her because she knew she was going to be moving. And therefore didn't want to have a relationship because she didn't want you or her to be left with a broken heart. If if was me I would go ahead and tell her you might regret not doing it......
And if you probably aren't' going to see her again what have you got to loose.
Just tell her exactly how you feel....
She might even get a little angry at first because you did something she told you not to, but explain it to her that you just couldn't not like her. By her asking you not to like her, she asked the impossible.
2007-04-05 14:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by ?4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you tell someone not to like you? It's not like a light bulb or something. It's a lose/lose situation. If you both are friends, you can still keep in touch with each other. Life has a funny way of working things out. Do it.
2007-04-05 14:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol why wouldn't she want u to tell her that? did she like know u would like her or something? well, i had a similar situation. except the guy didn't tell me not to tell him. but he was leaving and i really wanted to get it out. i never told him. i regret it sooooooooooooooo much. i moved on of coarse, and i have a boyfriend. but then, i really wished i told him. cuz u never know.......if u tell her, i might end up together. if u dont, u may not get her
2007-04-05 14:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER!!! She could have told you not to like her for several reasons, including the fact that she liked you but was afraid of something. And be sure to find out if you can write or email or IM each other.
Good luck.
2007-04-05 14:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she might just change her mind. You'll never know. Just do it and she what happens. If she tells you that she dosen't like you, then maybe she really does. But dont worry, maybe she is not the right girl for you.
2007-04-05 14:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is my recommendation: TELL HER YOU LIKE HER! Even if she still moves away, it'll make you feel better. And she'll prolly give you her contacts. I left without telling someone how felt about them and now when I think of them I regret it.
2007-04-05 14:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by icedragon_58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should go ahead and tell her. If your heart is being torn in two you need to go for it. At least get her address so you can either write each other or possibly visit sometime.
Go for it man.
2007-04-05 14:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by martinlh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋