I am a gay.But I cant live with it .I need cure or death?

Answer 1

There are good ministries out there to help you with this. Never Consider killing yourself!

Here is a good one: http://www.exodus-international.org/

I know at least 5 people who have been delivered from a gay lifestyle one is happily married and one is engaged to a lovely lady. The others are content with knowing the Lord and have excellent Christian friends of all kinds.

Answer 2

The psychologists tell us that most of us are born bisexual, and that only a relative few are exclusively heterosexual or homosexually inclined, and that it is largely our upbringing, cultural and religious beliefs, which determines the expression of our sexuality. Seek professional advice, possibly get a second or third opinion. Alternatives: try Hypnotherapy, or psychoanalysis, or try a heterosexual relationship, and if that doesn't work, accept that it is your culture, family, religion/friends going against your basic sexual predisposition, in which case you must make a decision. Either move away, or "come out of the closet", adopting an openly homosexual lifestyle (SanFrancisco, USA, & Sydney, Australia are "gay capitals"), or become celibate, masturbating as necessary for sexual relief, but choosing to have no life partner. It would help if you learned and practiced meditation, yoga and/ or Tai Chi. Ask for an answer in your dreams, before going to sleep: it may take a while. Start your search for professional advice now.

Answer 3

You need to learn how to love yourself and you'll then be able to accept yourself and your sexuality and live with it.

I'm sure you have some idea of the places in your community where you can find some help. Get that help.

This is not a choice that you've made, being gay, that is, and it's not an illness. So, there is no such thing as a cure. But there is such a thing as getting through your current depression and self-loathing, and coming out whole and happy and ready to live the rest of your life.

Suicide is never an answer.

And please, ignore cutzie. There's nothing cute about that answer, and nothing of any substance either.

Answer 4

Hello Sarahkumar. Every human being has the right to do with his life whatever he wants. You have to love yourself the way you are. Enjoy life, live it 100%. Do the things you enjoy. You do not need a cure nor death! [e-mail]

Answer 5

hey bud, alright so ur gay? So what man. Yeah im a little homophobic but what can i say its just because people in society today just cant except the fact that people like the same sex. As the days move on i begin to realize you guys are just like us we're all humans so what you like boys ( if ur a guy) or girls (if your a girl). Thats how god made you man live with it and dont hurt yourself or take death in the matter because of it. Everyone was put on this earth for a reason, find the strengths in your self dont down yourself and give up just cause you like the "same" sex. If someone makes fun of you, let them or talk to someone about it. Let them make fun of you because they just have no respect for themselves or for neone else, you'll be the bigger person to just move on wiht life and forget about those disrespectful people. Man so what ur gay dude Im sure ull find someone good that will make u feel great, dont let those people who down you hurt ya. You can live with it man. If blacks made it through all racism back then why cant gays? Dont give up brotha u got this, and this is coming from the straightest kid possible, but i still got faith for your kind.

Answer 6

There are many people that don't see things the way you do right now. sexual orientation to some people is like a difference in race, or religion, and is descriminized that way. They say that its against God to like someone of the same gender as you. But if God didn't want it like this then he wouldn't've made you the way you are. Everytime you hear talk about someone being gay, you almost always hear talk about God, or the bible, or how it is against something. But they don't understand because they don't have to go through with it. I'm not personally gay, but I have friends who are. One of them still trys to deny it to everyone because he can't stand the humiliation. Including me. Just because you're gay, doesn't mean that you're like into fashon, and like wearing makeup and giving head. It means that you don't see certain people the way they see them, which makes them want to hate you. I think instead of a cure, or death, that you should spend some time alone. Think of all the different options. God wouldn't've made you like this if he didn't think you could handle it. You WILL get called names and made fun of, but everyone in life gets made of for something. It just differs on what. You'll be okay. It'll just take time.

Answer 7

You need to learn to accept yourself for who you are. If you are having a problem doing that you need to find someone to talk to, like a counselor or therapist. You deserve to be happy and it sounds like you aren't. You deserve to like yourself and it sounds like you don't. That's sad. You don't need a cure or death. Being gay, straight, or bi doesn't define who you are as a person. Being gay doesn't mean you are a bad person or that you aren't as loved. Being gay is just a part of who you are. There are other things that make up who you are. Like whether or not you are a kind person, do you treat your family and friends well, have you found your purpose in life, etc. All of these make up the person you are trying to be. You can't measure yourself against someone elses sexual preference, that is just wrong. Just because I am straight and like guys doesn't mean I am a better person than you, just means we are different in that aspect. You need to look in the mirror and love who you see. You need to look in the mirror and say to yourself that you are a good person, that you do have value, and that you have a great life ahead of you.

Answer 8

Being Gay is not a disease but rather a genetic disposition, much like left-handedness.
Since it is not a disease, it cannot be cured.
Begin by accepting yourself unconditionally the way you are and then find like-minded people to hang with.
Hold onto hope. The outdated prejudism against gays and lesbians must surely be conquered some day - as soon as people wake up from the dark ages of religion.

Answer 9

The finale choice is yours, but I wish you would think twice about it or wait until the morning to think more on this when your mind is clear.

You need to join a support group or seek counseling because you are not alone in this process of accepting yourself. Yes, I said accepting yourself because you don't right now. Everyone, T.V., family, friends, articles, have said negative things about being gay and you have embraced the negativity.

I will pray that you seek help and accept yourself as you are.

Take care !

Answer 10

You need a psychologist to help you accept yourself for whoever you are. There is nothing wrong to be a gay. if other people whom you considered as friends can not accept you for what you are then forget them for they are not truly your friend. Love and respect yourself first before you can do that to others.