Will and I together from 5th May 2005 - 12th December 2006
Robbie and I together - 1st January 2007 - 5th January 2007
Tristan and I together - January 6th 2007 - 3rd April 2007
I know that doesnt make sense just yet, but I'm single now, and I really dont know what to do with myself.I don't know who I am , what I like doing , and how to be alone.I constantly think about what I could be doing if I was with one of my ex-boyfriends, and I would really appreciate it if someone in my position could help me, or someone single even.Just I really don't know what to do with myself,the days I dont see my friends I just find my self staying in, should I expect to go out every single day or is this just something I have done whilst having a boyfriend.I know this may sound very silly to some people.I dont want sympathy at all I would just like a few tips on how I can be happy without a man.Would it be fair to say i have become dependant on men??Does anyone know what I can do to stop this? Fnks
2007-04-05 10:34:26 · 6 answers · asked by hannah p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it is a big possibility that you have become dependent on men, but this doesnt mean that you cant become indendent again. I think that after being in multiple relationships for long periods of time can eventually lead to bad things. After a while you forget who you really are, and sometimes haveing some alone time is what you really need. Surround yourself with friends and things you enjoy doing. You might find somethings that you didnt even know you liked.
2007-04-05 10:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by maddieb_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is you have spent all your time hooked up and lost yourself. There is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend as long as you don't lose yourself at the same time.
You need some outside interests. Call your friends and set up lunch even if you have to force yourself. Take a class in anything at the local adult school or junior college. Just get out and read a book at the park will work as a start. Message people on this board that you find interesting and talk with someone will help.
2007-04-05 10:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all don't keep track of when you go out with someone and break up, its depressing. Also if you have more fun being with a boyfriend than being single, maybe your just that type of person. But even if you are single, its ok to stay at home and just relax, but some days just call up and friend and go to the movies or shopping or w/e else you wanna do, don't feel like you have to be with someone to have fun.
2007-04-05 10:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I am in the same boat and had friends help me through this one. i just now getting over a 8 yr relationship. yes it is hard but like others have said---get on with your life and think of yourself for a change. Don't feel sorry for yourself. It will only make things worse.
2007-04-05 10:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Debra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn to love yourself and boost up your self esteem. A woman doesn't need to depend on a man. If you find yourself bored alone, then get out and exercise, take up a hobby, scrapbook, go to a good movie alone (it's not that bad), read a good book.........
2007-04-05 10:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by magmar38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself. if you dont know what you like, what can you bring to the relationship? why did you like those guys? because they went hiking, fishing, raced cars. whatever it may be they had some thing that describe them what describe you? you have to spent time alone to realize who you are and what traits you want in a guy
make your mark
tell yourself EVERYDAY
"I am somebody and i am going to do what I like"
2007-04-05 10:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋