ok, well, we met around Oct. 18, 2006, and we were friends. On Nov. 26, he broke up with his gf, becuase he loved me more..weve been together since, and his parents found out we were going out online and wont let me talk to him till im 16, becuase they think kids shouldnt date till there 16. anyways, we love eachother so much, weve seen pics of eachother, and what i love is he loves me for who i am, not just what i look like, unlike most guys. lol, so hes moving right now, and every once and a while hell get a chance to sneak on the computer and email me just to say he loves me and he misses me. its sooo sweet, and i kno were meant to be. some ppl say its too good to be true, and i want to tell my parents, but they wont understand. i just want to kno what ppl think abt it, thx!
2007-04-05 09:43:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, well, we met around Oct. 18, 2006, and we were friends. On Nov. 26, he broke up with his gf, becuase he loved me more..weve been together since, and his parents found out we were going out online and wont let me talk to him till im 16, becuase they think kids shouldnt date till there 16. anyways, we love eachother so much, weve seen pics of eachother, and what i love is he loves me for who i am, not just what i look like, unlike most guys. lol, so hes moving right now, and every once and a while hell get a chance to sneak on the computer and email me just to say he loves me and he misses me. its sooo sweet, and i kno were meant to be. some ppl say its too good to be true, and i want to tell my parents, but they wont understand. i just want to kno what ppl think abt it, thx! ok, and hes 16, and weve made this whole date plan if we ever met. i live in mass, he lives now in wyoming, he supports me, and promises that he makes, he always keeps
2007-04-05 09:58:40 · update #1
ok, hes 16, and him and his family were moving and im safe with the internet... i kno theres dangers... and i kno thats it is possible to find love.... and for me... i kno its love... i always know when hes thinking of me, its sorta as if the times i need him the most to talk to hes always there
2007-04-05 10:04:33 · update #2
Well- when it comes to online relationships, one of the big dangers is that if you spend a very long time with your relationship being entirely online, you can develop a lot of expectations and assumptions about a person that in the end you don't truly know. While you might know all there is to _tell_ about each other, without spending time with someone and sharing experiences there will be a lot that you won't know about them. So, at your age, and with the restrictions that your parents have put on, I would try your best to enjoy the relationship in its online state, but if it ever does reach the point of you two meeting- 1. be careful, meet in a public place and 2. don't assume that you still don't have to get to know this person and that there isn't a lot left to find out about him!
And- please take my answer with consideration, as I met my boyfriend of 2 years online :)
2007-04-05 09:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by rachael.jeannette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at 14 you don't know what true love is. And how old is this guy? He's old enough to be moving out, so he must be about 18 or 19, right? Well, guess where he's going next with the relationship? The next move will be him talking you into coming to meet him somewhere. He'll talk all this "love" stuff and he'll convince you to give yourself to him (unless of course you wise up). You should be patient. Dating should be for years down the line.
2007-04-05 10:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by blackbeauty_19890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm. Internet relationships are not the kind you want to be involved in. You are only 14 years old....you really don't know what love is anyway, and you will realize this when you get older. If I were you, I would just stop talking to him, because chances are he is a child molester. The bad thing about online relationships is that he can say anything he wants and he can show you pictures of other people and you will never know the difference.
2007-04-05 09:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by to be taken seriously 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, you are only fourteen, and have little or no life experience as of yet.
I know you think you know, what you want and like, but at your age, I have to tell you, you don't.
As your friend is moving, there isn't much you can do. You are still in school and still learning.
Enjoy what you have, but keep your feet on the ground. As you get older and wiser, you will find out, that you like different things.
Being fourteen, is something we all go through, just like puberty. You are still learning who you are, and it will take years for you to find that out.
All you can do, is bide your time, and live and learn.
Love is at best a fleeting emotion, as hard as that will be for you to understand just now.
You can tell your parents, and you are wrong, they will understand what you are going through. They too, were fourteen once, and have survived it. Take their advice, it will be for your best interests.They do love you and want to protect you from hurt.
2007-04-05 09:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no no no no you are WAY to young to be on the internet talking to some guy.... dont you watch the news.... have you seen the child predators that are on the internet your not in love you dont even know each other... i know you may think that you are right for each other but you are too young shouldnt you be out playing hide-n-seek or double dutch... be a kid... it only comes around once... dont try to handle adult things like love.... if its meant to be he will be there when you turn 16...
2007-04-05 09:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is key. Plus you should go for a girl whose personality matches yours. Don't ever go for a girl because she's on the top of the food chain. Try starting conversations with all different girls until you know who interests you.
2016-05-18 00:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur fortunate uv found a guy who likes u for who u r at 14, i don't kno how a long distance relationship will work, but if u say u two r in love it could work. I think u have to meet this guy and c wat hes like in person. Good Luck
2007-04-05 09:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally (im 14) i think ur parents would be more comfortable if you and them met him in person. obviously dependng on how far away he lives. i would also make sure hes around 14....not 34!
2007-04-05 09:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by {the heronie's secret} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you love th boy then i would just say do what your heart says! if you truely love this boy then it doesnt matter what your parents think, it is your life! just be careful with online dating
2007-04-05 09:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Proud Mom Of One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becareful, guys who flirt on the Internet are weird, i know, we can smell our own...
2007-04-05 09:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by Man yahoo is biased 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋