ive been married and divorced. ive been dating for over a year now. but everytime i meet a great guy and everything is going good they just run away. the latest guy i was seeing was also divorced and everything was wonderful, but all of a sudden he quit taking my call and quit calling me. i just want to know why and is it me??
2007-04-05 09:37:10 · 15 answers · asked by armygrl24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No they are all just idiots!
2007-04-05 09:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Please don't be disillusioned with him. i recognize what he's been via and it truly is totally puzzling to sense one hundred% secure with somebody after that. fortunate me, I also have a female pal such as you who has thoroughly replaced my existence and taught me a sparkling which potential for the be conscious love. He runs away because of the fact he's scared. I doubt he's fearful of you hurting him, in spite of if that relies upon on how undesirable the different lady did. he's fearful of wounding you, or by some potential ruining your relationship. you're very useful to him and he's deathly fearful of dropping you, so he runs away to sidestep doing so. it truly is sorta like how somebody does not carry something heavy or soft for long classes of time because of the fact they could drop it. you may refer to him approximately it, the two way he will probable desire some reassuring.
2016-10-02 05:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by kelchner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not call him and ask him. Could it be that you talk about your past and your exes alot? Do you complain about everything and everyone? Do you listen to and value other peoples opinions? Do you insist on always being right? These are questions you should ask yourself. It could be you are just picking the wrong men.
2007-04-05 09:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you notice a pattern, try to figure out what is happening that is scaring them away. Are you being too demanding? Looking to get serious too quickly? Then once you find out what the problem is you work on it. It would help if you could speak candidly with one of your ex's to see what he thinks went wrong.
2007-04-05 09:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you still have relationship issues from your ex that you haven't dealt with. If you still have issues, your new man will sense it and turn him off. Have you ever thought about seeing a therapist to help you get over your past relationships? You should get over them before you move on to your next.
2007-04-05 09:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by bombabe019 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you talk about past relationships with them then they really don't want to hear all the dirt. They might start to think that they will be the next one you talk bad about. Try to focus on the future with the man you are with.
2007-04-05 09:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Trying♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you constantly trying to contact them every minute of the day? Guys tend to run if they sense girls feeling needy and desperate. You may want to seperate yourself from your home phone and cellphone and other contacting services for awhile. Guys tend to prefer women who aren't as needy or desperate, but still want a guy for safety and security.
2007-04-05 09:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by sum1_keeps_taking_my_name 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I need more info to even guess what is wrong let alone give you a good answer.
Most likely you are choosing bad men...shot in the dark.
2007-04-05 09:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some guys are just scared of committing themselves to someone else i wouldn't take it personally most guys are like that but you'll find the right person some day!
2007-04-05 09:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
humm.. cos the man who is made for you still is looking for you.
the moment he finds yu youl be tying the knot and no one would be a run away bride then.
2007-04-05 09:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by barley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well do you smother your mate and do you nag the hell out of them. also consider the fact that they can say what they want that doesnt meant its true wiseone. if you got it going on then its your impatientness wiseone, holla back peace
2007-04-05 09:43:19 · answer #11 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋