Should you tell a guy that his best friend put the moves on you? If so, how?

Answer 1

Yes you should tell him.

How you tell him is simple ..... JUST TELL HIM exactly what his best friend did to put those moves on you.

Answer 2

Why should you? The only reason is if you have relationship with that guy (you did not specify that in the question) and even then it is best to first confront the imposing best friend and tell him to stop or whatever. If he continues to do so, even after you made it clear then as a last resort you tell your boyfriend. Remember that the friend may even like you more than your boyfriend and everyone has urges. You don't want to ruin a friendship on bad move.

Answer 3

I suggest that you tell him b/c his best friend may have intentions of trying to interfere with your relationship with your boyfriend. You need to pick the right time, ensure you are alone with not other distractions present, tell him that you may have misinterpreted what happened but it seemed to you that his boyfriend was 'putting the moves on you' because he did or said ....whatever occurred. Hopefully, your boyfriend will have the maturity to not over-react and will be able to give you feedback. You'd want to know if your best friend made a move toward him, wouldn't you? It might be a difficult conversation to have, but it will be necessary to establish and maintain the trust between the two of you.

Answer 4

Depends on whether or not you want this guy to use the moves on you.
PS - he will never believe that his best friend did this and it will cause a big argument between the two of you. Then there is the possiblity that he will break up with you because his friend doesn't like you.

Answer 5

You definitely should tell your guy in a calm, mature way. If you tell the friend to just back off, he may get mad, tell your man and cause trouble. If you ignore it, the friend may eventually tell your man and, again, cause a lot of trouble and/or a breakup. It's best to tell your man yourself. If he flies off the handle and things blow up anyway, then it's best you know now that you'll never mean more to him than a friend. At least you'll know not to waste any more of your time.

Answer 6

Not initially. Make sure you have made it UNMISTAKABLY CLEAR to the best friend that you do not appreciate his advances, and that if they continue, you will tell your boyfriend.

If you suspect that it will continue, you might drop a hint to your boyfriend that you don't like the best friend because he stares at you. Seriously; plant this seed now. If the jerk keeps it up, it will come down to your word versus his, and you want it to already be in his mind that his friend was capable of doing such a thing. Dirty trick? Hell yes. Does the best friend deserve it? Hell yesser.

Answer 7

yes. if you like the guy and his bestfriend is putting the moves on you then you need to tell him. maby all the other guy needs is just to know that you are WAY off limits to him and everyone else. thats how it was with my b/f and his best friend. see his bestfriend had a major crush on me and Dan (my current b/f) didnt know that and had always taken his friends playful teasing as a joke and you should tell him the truth. it may help.

Answer 8

Assuming you are romantically interested in this guy, and NOT his friend, then YES you should absolutely tell him.

I know that I would want my girlfriend to tell me.

And if the guy you are interested in truly cares about you, then he'll work it out with his friend -one way or another. . .

Just be gentle about it; if he trusts you enough, then he'll believe it and resolve it.
If he doesn't and you are far into the relationship, then the relationship wasn't based on trust, and therefore, was doomed to failure anyways, now wasn't it?

So by telling him you either
A) lose him because he doesn't trust or believe you -in which case you HAVE NOT lost anything really.
or
B) earn even more of his trust by telling him, and he has a issue to discuss with his friend.

I certainly wouldn't tell your guy when his friend was standing right there, though.

But If I were in that guy's situation, I would want the girl (hypothetically you) to have faith in me, and tell me what happened, instead of assuming that I wouldn't trust you or be able to handle it.

Answer 9

If you want him to be relaxed then tell him straight to his face, and do not act anxious or he may begin to think there is more to the story. He will understand that his friend made a mistake, and will side with you. These situations are very common and if handled correctly will do nothing bad to the relationship. Good luck

Answer 10

If it's just a male friend, then no. Not unless he likes you. If it is a boyfriend, then yes. You should say, "______, so-and-so hit on me." I would use "put the moves on me" because that sounds as if you actually fell for him.