My ex and i broke up 5 years now. We always fall out and i would call him things would be good. He would get angry and say i am nagging him and tell me not to call him again. I always do and things would be fine but we would fall out again. He said he will build my roof for me. When he came by me he wanted sex but i couldnot due to the feminine month. When i called him to come by me to start back where we left off he was upset again. You see he said our relationship was pain for him and we can never get back together. I always try to be his friend. Sometimes things are good and then for no reason he is angry with me. What's wrong here?
2007-04-05 08:14:48 · 9 answers · asked by Ans 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound like a healthy situation for either of you. I would move on and find a guy that feels lucky to have me!
2007-04-05 08:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by LG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with ex's and being friends after, is a difficult one. The fact that you know each other in an intimate way affects one's judgment. Sometimes things don't work out for no reason, other reasons also happen but sometimes, you just can't stay friends unfortunately. From what you explained it seems like that's the case here... but I wouldn't know, the best person to ask is yourself. Is the friendship really worth all this? Do you really want to get back with your ex? Better think about it...
2007-04-05 15:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he angry because you won't have sex with him or is there a deeper issue? This does not sound like a healthy relationship. People aren't angry for no reason; you must get to the bottom of what's angering him. If it is sex or lack of that is angering him, I would let him go. Find someone who appreciates you for you. Remember that communication makes relationships successful.
2007-04-05 15:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by ChiCityBoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not compatible. You get along for awhile but then it's problems. It wouldn't be that way if you were meant to be together. You must go your separate ways and find the one who will make you happy all the time.
2007-04-05 15:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that he wanted sex but it was at the feminine month, so what does that have to do with anything?
2007-04-05 15:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that if he gets "angry" and says it's "a pain" he must not be interested.
i dont' understand why you would even continue seeing someone like this anyway.
and if he just wants sex sometimes, he's using you.
treat yourself kindly. you can.
2007-04-05 15:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he only wants some bootay. I would tell him if that is all that he wants then he can go pick up a hooker or something cause your not a holla back girl.
2007-04-05 15:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by cexymama696969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be in this busy life you are miss to pray to god.
with the prayers you get all the answers.
god listen to our heart.
god bless you
2007-04-05 15:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his way darling!
2007-04-05 15:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋