Why do men tell me very day, several times a day, that I am ugly?

Question

I mean, what is this to them, I have nothing to them, does it make them feel better when they approach me and call me ugly? I do not know them, or flirt with them, but I did not remember a day when I was not called something or other

I do not hang out with them, and if I am ugly, what is this to you?
I do not flirt with you or something, I just am. Why does it make
you feel better to call me ugly?

Answer 1

they are Anus holes dont worry i am sure u r fine the way u r

Answer 2

Regardless of what you look like no one, and I mean no one has the right to tell you that you are ugly or beautiful unless you ask. If you ask these people if you are ugly or not, then well, you kinda had it coming, but they still should sugar coat it.

Even if someone else thinks you are ugly, fat, rude, selfish or whatever, who the heck cares? The only persons opinion that should matter in life is yours. If a persons self esteem is so low, that other people can call them ugly and obviously get a rise out of them, then they need to work on their self esteem. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's cliche, but oh so true. What might be not attractive to someone is a major turn on to others.

As for those people who tell you that you are ugly, you should honestly either just walk away (without making any sort of recognition that you heard their comment), or snap at them. My personal favorite is "I may be ugly, but you know, plastic surgery or dieting can fix that. Your a b**tch (or the male term for it), you can't fix that." But be warned, if you snap at them, there is always the chance that they will pick on you even harder.

I would suggest finding something that makes you feel sexy, and going with it. Some women take classes in the community such as pole dancing, or belly dancing and they carry that confidence around with them even when they aren't at lessons.

One last thing, then I promise I'm done. It doesn't matter what you look like on the outside, the key is what is on the inside. Because the only person who really knows you, is you. You have to be happy with who you are.

Answer 3

I bet you are a very pretty person. Dont worry so much what others say. Ugly is a relative term. You may be just different, and different doesnt mean ugly. seriously dont worry about it. You can always enhance your looks by a haircut, makeup, lose weight whatever. Those ppl are probably insecure or immature, they are just punks. Can you talk to someone or your family on why these ppl approach you. You know its really funny but I'm not an american definition of "beautiful" myself, but I love myself. I have long hair, big eyes, tan skin, size 8 and i'm not model thin. Some ppl may find that pretty but there will be some ppl that would prefer light skin, blonde hair, blue eyes pretty. Beauty is the eye of the beholder. Good luck to you and God loves you.

Answer 4

I am not sure I believe yu...are u exaggerating here?
I had a friend once who didn't know how to flirt and she wasn't too attractive physically but her personality was even worse!
She turned off men all the time.

As for me, my whole life I've gotten lots of compliments, sexy looks, flirtations and daily.

Anyway I think ur exaggerating a lot here. I don't think most men do that at all!! There's even a woman I work w/who's not 'pretty' but she is so funny, outgoing, flirtatious,ect. and she is a lot older, yet men of all ages are coming on to her.
I'd say either develop ur character/personality more, be urself.....be real sweet, halarious, funny, sensitive, kinda vulnerable, tough, very very confident, HAPPY, spiritual, and men will flock to YOU!! And always have something interesting to say.
Where do u work, in a prison?!?! coz it sounds like ur around dirtbags.
As most men are FAR from that I can assure you!
And wear make-up, semi-seductive clothing, be trendy yet classic, w/some light jewelry.
Decorate urself emphasizing your best physical assets
And get the hair right. It frames ur face, makes a statement

Answer 5

It's a bit weird that people who don't know you appraoch to tell you such a thing. Are these men the same people who tell u such thing or evryday it's a new person? Anyway, I know that hearing such things in the long term may have negative effects on your self confidence but you should be strong and ask yourself are you really ugly. I am sure no as we are all God's children and no one of his children are ugly. But the main question is how u view yourself.

Answer 6

Some men are just flat out jerks, but only insecure childish and immature men say things like that. I am sure you're a beautiful woman who is worth so much to a man who respects and treats you good. I was treated the same way and now that I dumped my abusive ex boyfriend I am much more woman to the real men of the world. If you believe what they say then that's how you feel about yourself. You need to tell yourself that you are not ugly and that the men who say these things to you are insecure jerks.

Answer 7

That is just plain wrong. People are too judgemental today. No one is perfect and beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What one person think is ugly, another might fall in love with. Don' let anyone's ignorant ways bother you. Don't ever let their opinons make you feel less of yourself. Do you know why people pick on others and talk about them? Low self esteem on their parts or they are jealous of the one they make fun of. Ignore them, don't let them know it bothers you or they will never stop. They need to just grow up, you are worth so much more than just looks, love yourself and that is all that matters.

Answer 8

You mean to tell me that a guy will just walk up to you and tell you that you are ugly?

If that is the case, maybe you should try primping before heading out the door.

Answer 9

Men are jerks and you have to realize that. Everyone is going to say what they are going to say regardless of what you are or aren't. People talk about you no matter how you're doing. They talk about famous people so what makes you think their not going to talk about you. People often talk to hear themselves. So lift your head and don't worry about them haters remember who said this haterproof. You must have something that they don't they must envy you. Don't worry haters hate so let them do they thing and you keep doing yours. Remember their jerks. AS LONG AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND THINK YOUR BEAUTIFUL NOTHING ELSE SHOULD MATTER.

Answer 10

Damn! they call u ugly?...thats some mean people i would never just call someone ugly. Dont pay any attention to them...live your life...dont give a **** bout what they say dont let anyone stress u

Answer 11

I am sorry that you around such ignorant people. I think you need to associate with a different kind of friends. Good luck. You are loved. God Bless YOU.