He disrespects me cuz I broke up with his friend and thinks that I broke his camera. SO I am feuding with him and she knew this. I said I would not go if he went and she invited him anyways.Should I even go? Why would she even do that?
2007-04-05 07:20:16 · 13 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh because your being a baby about the situation, and cant even act like an adult on easter your mom should pick favorites and leave her son alone on a holiday? GROW UP
2007-04-05 07:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tamra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since the feud is between you and your brother why should your mom pick sides? The disagreement is between both of you. It's a family holiday and she invited the family to come over for the day and meal together. It is your choice whether to go or not but your mom should not be put in the middle of the two of you and have to choose which one to invite and which one not to invite.
2007-04-05 14:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by hr4me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off how old are you? and second is it that serious? he is your family and always will be no matter what you need to get over it I have a sister that I didn't talk to for over two years every time we were like ghost to each other we would just walk right past each other and I hated it I was unhappy My mom was unhappy and to tell you the truth I don't know why we were fighting and one day we just started talking when we were planning my parents anniversary party and to tell you the truth I am glad that we are over it now there was so much we missed out on people come and go things break and can be replaced and bought again but family is forever and time is precious that you can not get back so be wise and get over it
2007-04-05 14:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by looking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom can invite whomever she chooses to spend Easter with her. if you choose not to go, that's your prerogative too.
she did that because she wants you both there. you two can ignore each other or at least be civil. you both may be feuding, but you both are still her children.
take the high road and show up for mom's sake. be civil at the very least. you can do it. good luck.
2007-04-05 19:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by rainyday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother invited him because your fight is not her fight. It would be unfair of you to expect her to pick a side. This is an issue that you and your brother need to resolve. One of you needs to be humble and approach the other and say you don't want to continue to fight and would you be willing to drop this so we can go to Mom's and have a great Easter? Or, let your ego ruin Easter. Who cares about your mom's feelings, right?
2007-04-05 14:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Stefka 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you're being immature but if it means that much to you, don't go. BTW, I don't think it's fair to put your Mother in the middle of your feud with your brother. Put on your big girl panties & go to Easter with a smile on your face.
2007-04-05 14:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by retropink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's the mother and she wants all of her "chicks" to get along. However, if he starts in on you during Easter, give it right back. For years, my oldest sister and I didn't get along, I'm the youngest of three, and now that I'm an adult and can probably take care of myself better than she could of herself, I always gave it right back to her. You don't deserve bad treatment from him, you're there for the family and the holiday. Same with my family, she'd always start someting, and I'd always finish it. We both got over it, but I don't let her have the upper hand. =) Good Luck!
2007-04-05 14:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she invited him because he is her son. She is your mother and a mother should NEVER choose between her kids, she has a right to have all of her kids there. You need to grow up a little and go, for your mother sake. If you really hate your brother that much then don't go- after all it will be your loss and your mother's too
2007-04-05 15:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both her children and it was proper that she NOT accommodate YOU. It is her invitation, HER Easter. it is your decision NOT hers to make. YOUR responsibility. If YOU don't want to see your brother, that is YOUR choice, not your mother.
With NO disrespect to u, I am just saying like it is.
2007-04-05 14:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is HIS mother too... grow up.
If you have a problem with him, don't expect her to fix it for you.
It is possible to "agree to disagree"..... Be polite, bite your tongue, and treat your mother the way you would like to be treated if you were the mother trying to keep a family together.
Don't add more grief.
Besides, just because he says whatever doesn't mean it is true. Let him think whatever he wants to think.
Truth always surfaces, you do not have to argue about it.
2007-04-05 14:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by beentheredonethat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋