everyone is different so nothing can be done
as long as you let your husband have it when he wants it /no problem
2007-04-05 06:56:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Here are some suggestions:
1. Exercise more than you are and not only will libido increase but stamina will follow naturally.
2. There is a new "viagra" for women that is coming out on the market. Ask your gyn. about it.
3. In the mean time, watch some erotic movies with him or read some sexy novels. That will be an immediate start.
4. If you have recently had children, it might be a hormone imbalance. Do not take artificial hormones. Exercise and eat well.
5. If you are spending lots of time at a computer or TV, it can kill your sex drive with emissions and light waves that are not natural for the human to try to process out.
6. Get a makeover or buy some sexy clothes (what you feel are sexy) and try a new hairdo that turns you on to yourself. Self image can have a detrimental effect on how you view yourself sexually. Look good for yourself and your feelings will follow accordingly.
Good luck.
2007-04-05 07:16:02
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answer #2
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answered by mim 6
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Well antidepressive medications definitly work for severe clinical depression (and a few other problems that certain of the newer drugs can target as well, such as anxiety etc.), however it takes them several weeks at best to actually start working, so I'm a bit sceptical, too, about the effectiveness (but longterm, of course, they're definitly beneficial to psychiatric problems). If I was going to feel suicidal for half a year, I would want to start taking these meds ASAP so that I can increase my chances to survive after one month or so....[/no pun intended, I'm dead serious!] I also agree with you that most medical practicioners are way too quick to prescribe. I believe two reasons contribute to that: - it makes them and the patients feel like they've done "something" about which ever real or imagined problem was presented - the pharma industry actively targets practioners to prescribe (that **** has to go somethere after they invested so much in its research, right?
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2016-04-13 22:07:39
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answer #3
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answered by ? 4
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Measuring the penis when it isn't erect is pointless, since the length and bulk are affected by various temporary factors, such as the ambient temperature. Even the largest male organ can shrink to virtually nothing if the man goes for a swim in cold water. However, at normal temperatures a non-erect p enis usually measures between 8.5 cm and 10.5 cm (3-4 inches) from tip to base.
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The average figure is about 9.5 cm (3.75 inches). Of course, it's true that some men have big penises and some have smaller ones, just as some men have small feet and some have big feet, but the measurement is not – repeat not – an index of virility.
2015-02-04 04:30:54
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Hello,
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Recent polls have shown that the average length of intercourse is usually anywhere between 2 to 12 minutes. Most often those diagnosed with premature ejaculation climax in less than a minute or two, and there are even those who ejaculate before there is any sort of penetration. In all actuality, “too short” is really just a matter of opinion. The most important factor is if a man feels that he is unable to control his ejaculation and is frequently climaxing before he would like. Any man who feels that this is a problem for him may be suffering from some form of premature ejaculation.
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2014-09-13 10:30:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, even though it's just "your" physical problem, it really impacts both of you. This is more reason for the both of you to work towards this together, still keeping in mind that you are the only one who can really help yourself get better.
First of all, keep in mind that as women get older, they start to lose interest in sex. As women cross over the age of 30, they start to engage in masterbation more often than teenage boys. After a certain point, the pleasure they get from self-stimulation doesn't even compare to what sex can do for them anymore. The male partner is then left feeling not only sexually deprived, but sexually inadequate. Sex is such an important part of a relationship, that without it, two partners will start to grow distant, very fast!
The law says that if a partner has to endure over one year without sex from his partner, it is valid grouds for a divorce. "Abandonment". This is a defence that is usually raised when one party accuses the other of adultery.
I don't practice divorce law, so I have no incentive to try and get you to file a divorce rather than see you work things out. Remember that it's not a mental problem, it's not even a problem between you and your husband; it's a hormonal change in your body that is causing you to feel this way. As powerful a force that hormones are, you are still the one in control.
You have to actively try to help the situation. I remember sometimes when my girlfriend is in the mood, and i'm either tired or just not in the mood for some odd reason; to the point where even waves after waves of playboy bunnies can't get me hard. But I can't bear the site of her being unhappy, so I try to think back to the times where I was turned on, so something sexy she was doing, to something she was wearing, saying, whatever. Before you know it, we're having sex and she's done and happy as apple pie. Now, i'm a guy, and if I can fake it, there's no reason you can't.
But faking it to make your partner happy is only half the battle. You really have to fight what's holding you back. Maybe you realize that you want to do things differently, that you want him to do certain things which you once didn't find sexy, but now do. Times change, people change, sex will also change. Drugs boosting libido will actually make your body less able to stimulate libido production on its own. You will build up a dependency on them. Whereas, no drug in the world can boost up libido the way your own body can, given the right help by you and your partner ofcourse.
Tell him about things you would like to try to make things more exciting, maybe he wants to try things aswell. The objective here is to be open; being quiet and shy is the silent killer of any relationship.
Bottom line, you should never have to resort to drugs for sex unless there is some actual physical problem "erectile disfunction", or "irregular vaginal muscle contractions" which makes sex impossible. I wish you the best, and hope you can work everything out.
2007-04-05 07:27:54
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answered by Felix 3
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You need to start with a complete physical. There are many reasons for having a low sex drive, and they're not necessarily as simple as you might think. There are any number of illnesses and or meds that can and will interfere in any number of ways with the sexual response cycles of both men and women. Some of these are relatively benign, but some of them can kill. That's why that full physical is an absolute must.
2007-04-05 07:01:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Do not use any herbal medications, for a start. Estrogen is the hormone that increases your sex drive. Talk to your doctor and have him check you out.
2007-04-05 07:16:48
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answered by DNA G 2
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You would need to be investigated and a decision made as to whether the problem seemed physical or psychological. Hormone levels including testosterone need checked. Treatment would be guided by results. It could be hormones or counselling.
2007-04-05 07:15:50
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answered by Dr Frank 7
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2017-02-28 23:57:02
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answered by ? 3
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2017-01-26 12:38:41
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answered by ? 4
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