I have the hots for an older lady. Everytime I see her, my whole world is lit up. I don't want to ruin a friendship if I told her how I felt, but it's so intense!
2007-04-05 04:48:04 · 8 answers · asked by cherokeeindians_2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a crush. Especially when you start the sentence with "I have the HOTS for..." Love is emotion lead by actual respect and and intense mutual connection. If you have the hots for someone who dosen't even know you feel that way....it's a crush!!
2007-04-05 04:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that way, then you are in hots for her. If you are afraid that it might ruin your friendship, then dont say anything.
2007-04-05 04:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ur a female too? it sounds like strong physical attraction. i had the same feelings towards a girl one time too...but she had a crush on me and would constantly stare me down though...
2007-04-05 04:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really enough information to tell. Check back in six months or so. I wouldn't push anything, especially if you don't get vibes back.
2007-04-05 04:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by WolverLini 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a crush...love requires time and a mutual relationship.
2007-04-05 04:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you'll ruin the friendship.... then you'll be crushed!.
2007-04-05 04:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crush
2007-04-05 04:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to answer this question for yourself.
2007-04-05 04:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋