She's a nut she keeps calling him and sending me messages. She'll be fine one min. and the next min shes going crazy. I need to get her out of our life. Shes killing everything, and I know shes just hatin on us mostly me, but I can only take so much before I go mop the floor with her face. HELP PLEASE~
2007-04-05 04:46:18 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks the GOD they dont have any kids together.
2007-04-05 05:20:19 · update #1
She doesnt have my number she sends me messages on My Space.
2007-04-05 05:21:11 · update #2
Has your man said anything to her? If not tell him to grow a pair and tell that crazy ***** to chill. If he's done that and she still won't listen then you have every moral right to walk your dogs and lay that ***** the fu ck out! Put her on ice!
2007-04-05 04:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't up to you to get your boyfriend's "ex" out of your lives, it's up to him. "Mopping up the floor with her face" isn't going to do anything but land you in trouble (or worse), and it certainly won't solve the problem.
If she is indeed "bipolar", that makes for a very difficult situation. She probably needs medication (if she isn't on any), and even that is no guarantee.
I have a close friend who is bipolar and none of her medicines work for long, she can be very difficult at times. I don't envy you and I have no doubt she is causing a lot of problems for both of you.
You need to try legal action if nothing else has worked, try getting a restraining order to keep her away from you. Keep in mind though that they only work with "normal" law-abiding citizens and may not work with her.
Does she have any family or friends that your boyfriend can talk to? Maybe they can get her the help she needs.
Good luck.
2007-04-05 11:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cyanide, Columbian necktie, TNT.
? Did they have kids together? If so, never. She'll always have a reason to be in contact with him.
No kids, then change phone numbers, email address's. If she comes to the house, get a restraining order.
Sooner or later she'll fixate on some other poor soul and pretty much leave you two alone. At least we can hope so.
Good luck.
A~
2007-04-05 11:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband had a bipolar ex-gf (they had 2 kids together) so I can sympathize. It wasn't long before she landed herself in jail though. Most bipolar people that I've known (3) end up "removed from society" (aka in jail). You can always get a restraining order against her and then when she contacts you, you can have her arrested (and she will contact you because bipolar people don't care about restraining orders).
2007-04-05 11:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is your man's ex . . . when will you be the bipolar ex calling? When someone has problems with their ex, it is usually a result of something they have done. Is he leading her on? Why does she even have your number?
2007-04-05 11:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Introduce her to a polar bear.
2007-04-05 11:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get a restraining order?
2007-04-05 11:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jimee77 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if there are kids, then you will never get rid of her, if not then she will fade with time, just wait hun.
2007-04-05 11:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by delbolof 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
buy a gun...or get a restraining order...they are cheaper
2007-04-05 11:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
do they have kids?
if not, just dont ANSWER her...
she'll stop, bipolar or not
2007-04-05 11:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋