I would like to know, from the ladies, why is it that you become less sexual with a man when you know he's good for you and ready to commit? I'm so tempted to go back to being not so much of a nice guy. At least I was getting laid. When you want to love instead of get laid we end up jerkin off anyway. Help me figure this one out.
2007-04-05 04:00:54 · 16 answers · asked by A man ready to commit. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Their body says yes, but their mind says no...
2007-04-05 04:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women are scared of relationships.....commitment. It all depends on their past. Was she is a rough relationship? Did she get hurt the last time she let herself love? I had a couple of rough relationships in my past and it was hard to realize that I was pushing away "good" guys because I was so scared of getting hurt again. So scared of getting more involved and my feelings getting crushed again. When it is something like that, sometimes you think it is easier just to stop now then it is to get more attached.
I would say she is probably pulling back because she has developed feelings for you and doens't know what to do about it. I would suggest that you talk to her about it and then maybe back off and let her think about it. Hopefully, she will come around.
.....don't stop being a nice guy. Just give it some time. You will find someone out there that appreciates you.
Good Luck! :-)
2007-04-05 04:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that to a guy...my ex...when we were toghether I was going through some issues and I had told him why I wans't being so affectionate and loving...
He acused me of cheating...
I feel that either way you end up loosing...its not a win win...situation...
Most Guys need to be physical to show emotion...when they don't get that physical attention they become jerks anyway...
Do what you want...if you care about a girl past the physical part...this question wouldn't be posted...
Good luck!
2007-04-05 04:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I become more sexual when he seems ready to commit. I think if I was only interested in him for sex commitment might not be what I was looking for and then I'd pull back.
2007-04-05 04:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're messing with women who aren't looking for more than sex. Don't go back to being one of those bad guys(I've dealt with so many of them, we don't need anymore in the world) Like women can tell what a man is interested in, there are ways to tell what women are looking for outta a relationship and you just have to pay close attention to them.
2007-04-05 04:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by MJfanforever22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because unlike men women think with there real heads.
If i really like a guy i'm def going to take things as slow as i can, so that i won't lose him.
If i don't like a guy then i wanna jump on him as fast as i can and get out of there.
It's not hard, guys just think differently than us.
**** IMPORTANT**** Wait as long as she wants and you will have the best sex with her anytime you want. Trust me!
2007-04-05 04:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by jgroover85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are in it just for the sex, then realise that they actually like you and want to be sure your relationship isn't just about sex. From what you've said here, it seems like it is. I think you need to learn a lot more about women and compassion in general and not be such an jerk, maybe she'll like you more.
2007-04-05 04:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by moonwolf317 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't know you're good for her and ready to commit. Or maybe she does and she's scared of what she's getting herself into. Really can't answer without knowing what's going on there.
2007-04-05 04:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by AnonymousGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it the okd thing that a woman tries to impress a man to get him and the best way which is sad is to do the whole physical thing then we got you so what the hell we will become ourelfs again really its you guys fault for making sex just a big deal bring back dating thats what i say
2007-04-05 04:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by titchy_lady 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its science - the push-pull theory! If you push, as you you say i'm yours, then the recipient pulls away!
To keep things fresh you need to both push and pull. For her to keep 'wanting' you she needs to feel a sense of a challenge, so let her succeed.
2007-04-05 04:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol amen! and this is coming from a woman!.. i would just like to apologize in honor of the rest of my fellow ladies.. its weird because men actually get much deeper into it then women do, which sounds weird when you think about it.. but its the truth.. i dont know what our deal is.. good question.
2007-04-05 04:06:33 · answer #11 · answered by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋