2007-04-05 03:22:41 · 27 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that you can love people differently. You love a sister - but your not in love with your sister. You love your grandparents - but your not in love with your grandparents.
She loves you like a brother - not a boyfriend. She cares about you and wouldn't want to see anything happen to you. But she doesn't get butterflies in her belly or weak in the knees over you anymore.
Being "in love" is a state of mind. It's that point when the birds are chirping, you can't keep your hands off of one another and cannot be without the other. Love changes it's degrees over time - that's normal. The intensity level drops but should still remain intact. If it drops completely and is no longer intact - it's no longer in love.
She no longer remains in this state of mind. Her love has waned.
I'd say let this one go. Hanging on will only push her further away. Let it go. Start dating again. It's like that old saying, "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was."
2007-04-05 03:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl says- I love you, but I am not in love with you. It means I love you as an individual, like a family member. But, I don't have butterflies in my stomach and my heart doesn't skip a beat at the very thought of you or when you touch me. But, don't feel bad because if someone loves you it is generally everlasting. Being in love with someone can fade.
2007-04-05 10:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tickle me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she cares about you, but not as a lover. Not just yet. Keep on hanging in there, she will love you like you want her to eventually
2007-04-05 10:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by aries19768 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she truly does care for you like a family member but she's just not in love with you.
2007-04-05 10:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Odessa Fraser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that the girl loves u only as a good friend and doesn't want to further your relationship together. doesn't take a girl to answer that.
2007-04-05 10:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she loves you as a person, but not as a romantic partner. She cares about your well-being and values you but just doesn't have deeper feelings for you.
2007-04-05 10:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by brwnbarbie24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its mean she like u but not really in love with u...just like but not have special feelings yet.
2007-04-05 10:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Bears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are done dude. She loves you like a brother or a friend, but not like a lover. Sorry...
2007-04-05 10:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sees you as a friend not a boyfriend
she loves you like a brother
sry
2007-04-05 10:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that they love you like a friend, but they are not in love with you like they would do anything 4 you and they could see themself with you for a really long time.
2007-04-05 10:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋