Why my girl didn't let me do this?

Question

3 months with my girl and the best thing i could get a kiss
I am 19 and she is 18
in one time i was kissing her i went to her shirt i wanted to see her boobs she didn't let me
do you think it's too early for that
anyway i am still virgin,and i can't stop thinking about her boobs

Answer 1

The only thing I can advise to respect her decision that tells you she is not easy, so you are lucky on having a girl like her. Also you should think about how great she is instead of her boobs. For last never base your relations only on sex it is not sane.

Answer 2

You are a guy... it is only natural that you want to see her boobs and I am sure she knows this. Have you tried just asking her politely if you could see her boobs in a none-sexual way, stating that you would only like to admire her hidden beauty while satisfying your innate male curiosity. It does not matter if you are 18 or 19 or 29 or 38. There is not deadline for loosing your virginity. What counts is that when you do lose it you lose it with someone you care about and I am assuming you care about her. I am guessing that she is still in high school and for high school virgins 3 months is not enough time to be together before having sex.

There are lots of reasons she might not be comfortable loosing her virginity right now and since you care about her you should understand this. have you tried just talking with her about this too find out why she has waited this long and feels uncomfortable about having sex yet. I think it is great that you two have waited this long and I am sure that when you two do finally have sex it will be worth it but for now you need to focus on the relationship. Too many young relationships are lost because sex becomes the focus instead of communication and fun. Don't rush into it because you will ruin the relationships but develop the rest of it because obviously your relationships needs work if she doesn't feel ready and you cannot understand this.

I would still politely yet playfully ask her for a peak now & then but the key is not to pressure her and work up to sex. You can do other things between now and then to deal with this like go swimming and masterbate... preferably together.

Answer 3

Maybe it's only her boobs your interested in and she knows that. Cos u don't seem to be bothered by anything else but her boobs.
Perhaps u should start showing an interest in her not just her chest. Why don't u ask her wot the problem is, communicate with her - maybe she thinks ur too forward maybe she would rather wait for a special moment etc.
Treat her as your girlfriend as someone you care about n not just a pair of boobs!

Answer 4

It could be one of a lot of reasons. Being so young, she probably doesn't feel comfortable with it, or she wants to save herself for marriage or she isn't ready, sit down with her and ask her why she wouldn't let you, but its probably one of those reasons. Both of you are very young, and have only been together for 3 months. Personally, I think that its too early, but everybody has their own opinions. But you should respect her wishes if she doesn't want to let you do it, and don't force her into doing anything that she doesn't want to.

Answer 5

you don't have to see her boobs that much really, if you respect her you will give her the time and not harassed her after all you're just 3 months and that's too early for those things, what is the use of those playboy magazines, if you really want to see boobs buy one magazine and fulfill you're pleasure there. she might think that you only want is her body.

Answer 6

after like 2 months, i let my boyfriend do that.. and we have fing3rd, and h@and jobs like once each, but we just broke up after 4 months, and we didnt hae sex either.. we were both waiting for the right time to do it, and when we both felt super comfortable about it.. i'd say shes not very comfortable around you yet

give it some time.. its normal to a certain extent.. haha

good luck

Answer 7

Just go with the flow and if it is supposed to happen it will. Don't expect it and it might happen sooner or you will move on. You are young, you have lots of time.

Answer 8

You should subscribe to Jugs magazine. Every time you have a date, pull out the magazine and say to your girlfriend, "hey, look at those knockers""

Answer 9

dont expect too much too soon.. you could ruin things and it is not good to want to rush things or try to force anything upon your gf..... obviously she is not ready so be patient.and have respect.

Answer 10

Obviously, she's not ready for intimacy, so you'll either have to be patient, or find someone else.