Mature women: I'm having difficulty getting and receiving attention from women. I act confident but not cocky, I smile, I communicate, outgoing, act myself. But I'm having trouble dating women and it's hard trying to get to know them. I can't remember the last time a women has even looked in my general direction. I live in Dallas " keep Dallas Pretensious" might have spelled the word wrong" but F it. So the women here, not all of them, can act rude, self centered, stuck up, won't give you the time of day, whatever.... Any ideas on how to grab the attention of someone that you're attractive to, or get her to trust you as a friend and maybe more??? I would like to hear from women of ages 30 and up, opinon on this?
2007-04-05 00:02:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might be meeting the wrong women at the wrong places.
Get involved in something in the community. Join Habitate for Humanity YOu will find good quality women at places like that.
It will show that both of you are quality people.
Also join a decent singles sites. I met a great guy on Yahoo Personals
2007-04-05 00:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am only 26 but I guess I can be of a mind of women starting from 30 and up, I hope.
Getting to your point, I think that it is partly your problem regarding dating women, may be you initialize it in a not accurate way so that instead grabbing a woman you do the contrary. The other part is getting your mind away from generalization coz simply women are not all alike. Definitely, there is a SPECIFIC one made for you and you are made for her.
Try to analyze yourself truely and without any fake advantages or disappointing disadvantages. Change what is boring and stereotyped about you .. look cheerfully, smile always and be a real caring and responsible man ... these are enough alluring to grab the women's attention globally.
You gotta be "International" somehow :)
Have a great day.
2007-04-05 07:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try meeting people in different venues...join clubs, take up a new hobby, take a course at a local college....try internet dating.....it isn't easy these days but if you try you will meet people that you have things in common with and go from there...good luck
2007-04-05 07:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋