On Friday night, i let my boy friend have his time hanging out with his boys. They like to go to the bars for drinking. I know one of his boys is very flirty. My boy friend like drinking and relaxing with his mates. If your girl friend give you time of your own on Friday night with your mates at the bar or clubs, would you guys take this as an opportunity to cheat or flirt with other girls? If you love your gf, would you guys still want to hang out with ur mates on friday night? or you would prefer to hang out with her?
2007-04-04 23:57:42 · 12 answers · asked by cheek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he always see me on the weekend.
2007-04-05 00:03:58 · update #1
Unless your relationship was struggling he is probably just going to talk with his mate. Everyone needs to have a brake and get away from each other for a short time and this is his way, pressuring him or not trusting him will only cause problems in the relationship.
If you were to go out with your girl friends would you cheat on him? if the answer is yes then the relationship is doomed anyway but if not then its unlikely he would as you have a good relationship.
let him have his fun with his friends on Friday, I doubt he would be cheating. You've got him for the rest of the week.
2007-04-05 00:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by clint_slicker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case, my husband would take me with him. Most of the time he will ask if I want to come. If I am too tired, then he will called and rescheduled it. That's for the nite out like to the club, or the bar or any event that happen in the evening. But during the day,if his friends, or co-workers ask him to go to lunch then I think it is not a big deal. But he always let me know anyway. Sometimes it is good to let each other have some space, but not all the time and every week.
2007-04-05 00:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i am because my last gf always asked for some money to go to the movies with her friends but 2 months ago i snuck aver to the movies to see if she was really with her friends but i found out she was with some dude i really hated. I just realized my life is better right now without a girl. I just feel like concentrating on school because all my friends are going threw to much drama while they still are in school. So yeah im happy without a gf right now.
2016-03-29 00:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you still like hanging out with your girlfriends, even though you love your boyfriend. He is in exactly the same position. Guys and girls are different, and like it or not you can't fill the place of his guy friends. This is in the same way that your boyfriend will not fill the role of your girlfriends. If he is trustworthy, then trust him. (If he is NOT trustworthy, then why are you with him.) Guys who are truly committed to their girlfriends will not cheat. Use the time your boyfriend is out to have a "girls' night". You may find yourself looking forward to the time apart, and coming together as happier people.
2007-04-05 00:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has a right to spend some time with his buddies just as he needs to give you some time to spend with your friends. Can not say what guys do when they are not in company of his girlfriend, because I am a female, but you need to trust him. Ask yourself these questions: What do I do when I go out without my boyfriend? Do you want him to trust you and believe in your faithfulness? If you want him to trust and believe in you you need to him. I do think however, that if you let your guy have his night out and/or you have your night out then you should make sure that you make sure that you have your quality time together too. Got to have a little trust in the relationship or you won't survive.
2007-04-05 00:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let your boyfriend have his time...sounds like you got your b/f on a short leash...well, a guy has to have some time to spend with his "boys"...sure a guy will cheat if he gets the chance..and drinking does not help things out...so what you have to decide..is he worth trusting or not?
most guys don't cheat...you just have to have faith in your boyfriend and hope he does the right thing...would he stop going out with his boys if you asked? probably not..so the question is academic
2007-04-05 00:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Louella R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys that hang out in bars late at night regularly are 99% of the time open to sexual opportunities.
2007-04-05 00:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any good man would take his girlfriend out on weekends, and see the mates during the week.
2007-04-05 00:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are women answering for guys? That is so stupid. Why do you women out there think you know what guys, or anyone for that matter, thinks?
2007-04-05 00:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by top 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would prefer to hang out with her
2007-04-05 00:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋