im not good enough?

Question

i keep getting told im not good enough and also keep getting rejected by everyone im tired of all the pain and suffering ive tride every way to commit suicide but it dont work what should i do to get rid of the pain

Answer 1

I fully agree with the answers posted above me .. first try having sex or **** just ejaculating boosts your emotions from depressed to "happy" ... and if you really wanted to kill yourself you wouldn't be here to ask us this question. 70+% of suicide attempts were strictly an attempt to get attention. it's understandable to feel depressed. Go see a pshycologist (not a pshyciatrist) and try to talk some of your feelings out without being medicated.

Answer 2

Avoid such people as much as possible: by belittling others, they think they can raise their own standing, but they are actually very negative people, and listening to them will do you not good at all, so learn to "tune them out", if you have to be in their presence, otherwise go elsewhere. The best place to start is by seeing a doctor, as you are almost certainly suffering from depression. Because medication and therapy can take time to be effective, practice for 15 - 20 mins daily, and when needed, the mindfulness breathing method at http://www.dbtselfhelp.com/ or gaze at a burning candle in a quiet, darkened room for 20 mins. With both of them, best results are achieved by practising morning, afternoon, and evening. Tai Chi & yoga suit some (http://www.yogasite.com). Daily, take a vitamin B complex, and 4 fish oil supplements, and work your way up slowly to 30 - 60 mins of vigorous exercise, preferably in sunlight. Eat healthily, and keep occupied. View http://www.coolnurse.com/self (/self_esteem3.htm) If the suicidal feelings are strong, call 911, or an ambulance, or take a taxi, etc. to the nearest hospital emergency room, or mental health facility (don't drive!). Phone 1800 life net or 1800 273 8255. http://www.suicidepreventionhotline.org/ or http://www.suicidehotlines.com/national.html Also see http://www.beattheblues.info/? & www.depression.com/-

Answer 3

Stay away from whoever tells you you aren't good enough. And hun if you tried so many ways to commit suicide you'd be dead. that is just a cry for help. Look in the mirror everyday and say I am good enough for everything and then some and fu*k those people who think different. If someone rejects you laugh and move on darlin'

Answer 4

First of all, suicide is not the answer. I thank the Lord that you're still alive. Please don't ever try to commit suicide again.

I hope that you hang in there even if people keep putting you down. Don't give up and remember that you're worth so much more than what they may say you are.

Try talking to a pastor, priest or counselor. God bless you!

Answer 5

First of all, don't believe everything someone tells you! If you ask a girl out and she says no, thank God that you did not waste your time on a shallow person. Why don't you forget about girls for awhile and pick up a sport. Fill your time with sports that you enjoy playing and don't even get caught up with girls. One day you will wake up and there will be a bunch of girls chasing you and wanting your attention. But for now get busy and ignore them, they hate that and you become a challenge and women love a challenge.

Answer 6

You need to be accepted for who you are, if you cannot find this then you must go to people who will. It is hard, do not feel suicidal, it is never the answer. For you helping yourself, taking on the experience you've gained will surely help others in their quest for accpetance and happiness.

You know, it may seem strange for you to hear this, but have you tried going to your local church, or anything similar, perhaps your local community centre for help. They are very good, they will be willing to help you, they do not require anything from you but to help you.

I would recommend you to start reading religious books, they may be the last places you'll look now, but they have helped may people cope hard times, changed peoples lives totally.

Don't commit suicide, it is never the answer.

Answer 7

Stop comparing yourself to everyone else. Its the worst thing you can do in terms of making yourself feel bad as face it, your never going to be everyone else and why would you want to be. Everyone is different, you have your own qualitities. Accept who you are as you will find once you do, you will feel so much better baout yourself. Inore people who put you down 9 times out of 10 their doing it to make themselves feel better.

Also as said, yeah sex helps lol.

Take it easy!

Answer 8

Get mental health care

then change the internal dialog in your brain. Use positive words. If you keep telling yourself that ou are a looser, then you will make that heppen

Answer 9

revange does nothing.Try making ppl konw that you exist and that you are there. If you do any washing up or prpare the mela do not do it and if they ask why you didn't tell them i am not gd at anything is it what you say that is all . thay get coniuce than. gd luck xxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 10

Who says your not good enough only God can make that judgement and I've never heard of him rejecting anyone. Have you tried speaking with a counsler or your pastor. theres a purpose for everybody on earth. and I bet yours is still to be discovered. Please take the time to think who will be hurt if you kill yourself, because that act itself is very selfish, Please talk with someone you trust, life is worth living you just need to get past this rough patch.