there is a girl which i really adore.however,in her eyes there is only God n studies...her devotion towards God really attracts me..Though she is extremely polite and friendly to me,but she seems so cold(no curiousity,no questions and all).It is almost impossible to find a topic with someone who doesnt talk much.i am not a person who couldnt wait,but she will be graduating in 1 and a half year,waiting for a few years is nothing to me,but 1 and a half year wont be enough to make some1 get touched.gimme some useful answers and suggestions,i need it.thanx.i wana avoid going to church in order look at her instead of praising God.this is totally stupid,for the relationship with God is much more important than human relationship...
2007-04-04 19:05:30 · 9 answers · asked by mR questiOn 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
it seems that i am not being able to express my situation perfectly.,ost of you couldnt understand and analyse what i mean.too bad
2007-04-04 22:28:54 · update #1
The only thing I could really understand from your dilemma is that you want to touch this girl but you can't because she believes in God? Did you actually have a question?
2007-04-04 19:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being in love and being attracted may have some difference. Make sure love has more bearing than the attraction she gives. Married couple ends up splitting because they found out later that what attracts him most becomes an annoyance to the relationship.
My lawyer friend was attracted to a bright and assertive lawyer too and he told she is the woman he would like to live his life with. They got married and both did not take too long to realize that they can never settle an argument.
I was attracted once to voracious reader, I too enjoy reading and when time came for us to be closefriends, we both discover that we can't leave anyitme anywhere without a book in hands. As time went on her readings had been taking so much toll on our relationship seriously and we have to split. So, before I tell you what to do, look first within you if are just attracted because of her devotion and being silent or you are in love with her for everything she is and you are readyfor the unexpected.
2007-04-05 02:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rallie Florencio C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looking at her for her body and not her soul. if you only cared about her soul you could take her or leave her. Just Lucifer trying to use you to get at her or her at you. Maybe Lucifer put her in your path as a test of your faith. Break your concentration, less prayer, more sinful thoughts, sure sounds like the devil playing field to me. Good luck. P.S. I really hope that you and this girl get together if that is the way God wants it. if so i hope you have a wonderful exciting life together. AMEN!
2007-04-05 02:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If God be for you, who can be against you. And if it is not God's will let it pass. He has something much better for you. If you push the issue, nothing good can come out of it. Pray and ask God for wisdom. He will give you the words to say. If He doesn't, she is not the one for you. May God Bless U.
2007-04-05 02:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really give up on this one if you want to test out all those hormones. And really if you want a useful relationship. Just stop staring at her during English class for f's sake.
2007-04-05 02:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
human relationship and relationship with GOD is the same as human soul is form of god only.
2007-04-05 02:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by shupendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about religion with her. See why she feels the way she does about Christianity. You can go WITH someone to Church TO WORSHIP.
You go to a movie WITH someone but you go TO WATCH the movie. It could be the same way with going to Church with her.
2007-04-05 02:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, don't get distracted by girls, I know that is not easy, but if you want any chance you better read your bible and talk to her about that, because God will not let any wanna bee's near his daughter! Talk about Jesus, this is who she loves, and then ask him if you can date her, he is in control of her heart!
http://www.freedomcame.com/glory/
2007-04-05 02:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by bungyow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she hasn't open up because she is thinking I'm not interested in anything he has to say, you're not her type. she'd make an effort if she really liked you.
2007-04-05 02:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋