if you in love with a women . but she keeps blowing you.off. but then she ask you to buy her things.?

Question

and you do but she wont go out with you but shouldi do

Answer 1

I'd tell her to get lost....she's a just money grubbin materialistic b itch.

Answer 2

first off, stop buying her things..

secondly, STOP BUYING HER THINGS!

your not getting anywhere with this woman because it seems as though she's just using you.

If you want to get with her (which I don't highly recommend), you can stand your ground, and tell her straight up that you don't like being used.

Now she can take this in two ways:

1) be very intrigued of how you presented yourself as a strong man who knows what he wants

2) she could be a total flake and curse you out till the cows come home.

But regardless of the outcome, stand your ground, be a man. and most importantly, STOP BUYING HER THINGS!!!!

Answer 3

Kenneth i know this is harsh but you are being played. down here in jamaica alot of girls play guys like that. they tend to take advantage of someone who is kind and then brag with their friends. the fact that she keeps blowing you off is evidence enough that she is playing you. i am so sorry but not all girl appreciate a kind guy. i think that you should let her know that you are through being her slave! i know that it maybe hard especially if u liked her but you need to wise up. i hope that i didn't hurt you feelings but she is definately playing you. do not stop being a nice guy because u cannot let one bad apple spoil the lot, continue being sweet but that girl need to check herself!......good luck nice guy!

Answer 4

She really doesn't sound like a very nice person. I don't like girls like this. I even feel funny if I'm dating a guy and he pays for everything. I really don't like boys buying me presents in the early relationship stage cos it makes me feel funny and I feel bad if things don't work out. I don't know how girls can use guys like this and feel ok about it. It's wrong. Move on. Some girls are users. She really sounds like one.

Answer 5

Leave her alone and forget about her. She is just using you to get what she wants for FREE. Have more respect for yourself. You deserve someone who is going to like you and want to go out with you because she is actually interested in the person that you are..............not for what you can give her. Seriously, this is not someone that you want to waste your time, efforts and more importantly, money on..........They aren't worth it in the end and will break your heart.

Answer 6

Next time you see her coming, RUN in the other direction! You deserve better than this. Detach yourself now from this leech, so you'll be available when the right woman comes along -- believe me, she's out there looking for you right now.

Answer 7

She is using you.... You need to say bye to her. Do you really want to be in a relationship where the other person doesn't love you back. Believe me you can't love enough for the both of you.

Answer 8

Dude, why are you buying it? I understand if you buy something for her when it's her birthday or something but not an every week spree. She's using you for your money, and your gifts. I suggest you give your status with her some thought.


Good Luck!

Answer 9

DUMP HER. She is just using you. You are going to get nowhere with her, so quit buying her things....it's not going to make her love you if you do, so save your money. Meet someone else. The question you should be asking yourself is. "why do I love her?"

Answer 10

Then ofcourse u are being fooled by her but i think u should keep on trying until the day she says yes & starts loving u.

Answer 11

Haha I see youre one of THOSE guys. Most girls have those guys that will do anything for them. SHES USING YOU!!! She doesn't want to go out with you. Stop talking to her for a month and see how much she "misses talking to you". Maybe you could get her that way....